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2011-08-18T23:46:00.003+08:00

11.47pm

ARGHS! super duper angry with myself!

i was sooooo happy when i found out i can finally purchase from taobao.com through vpost! i can now pay via vpaychina and the items can be sent to vpost and vpost will send to me.. so, i happily buy my items from different sellers.. then only to realise that they based on individual sellers to charge me shipping fees!! items from 2 sellers already arrived.. one cost $17.. the other cost $7.. wad about the rest? i only purchase 1-2 apparels from them!! and the shipping is $7 for one pc of clothes?! WTH! i feel like killing myself i swear! =( super duper upset with myself! hais......

i will still buy from taobao.com but this time round only if the seller has lotsa items for me to buy from! =((((((

2011-05-20T17:58:00.002+08:00

5:58pm

2011 is definitely not a good year for me.. hais..

first shyanne had a bad fall before our taiwan trip.. den jabez now fracture his arm.. sam have to go reservist at this point of time when work is having a super important campaign! if i gt into this campaign, it would meant near to twice fold of my mthly income! i have to take 2 days leave even though aunt agreed to help cos she has to take care of her mil too.. arghs!

today, everything is not ok!

1st - wanted to take free shuttle bus to KKH at bugis so i bus-ed 197 to bugis.. but damn i overslept and by the time i open my eyes, the stupid bus JUST left the bus stop! so i thought the stop wasnt that far but no, it is damn far! until near ICA building liao! so end up LL take cab to KKH!

2nd - the prev doc told us there r chances jabez might recover and he no need to put on cast.. but when we went to c the doc today.. the doc say the bandage or cast or whatever u call is just to reduce the swelling.. so a cast is a definite.. i was super upset! talk abt FT! the prev doc is a FT! arghs!

3rd - ask the doc abt jabez's finger.. cos i notice there were yellow pus when he press one of his fingers.. i ask the doc could it be he hurt his finger and thus the whole arm also affected.. he say no.. nothing one!! but as a mother, how can i take it when a doc just tell me NOTHING?? especially docs from KKH!! i wasnt feeling very settled.. i check with the nurses who helped jabez on his cast they also advise me to ask the doc again.. he said the same thing to me.. i requested for x-ray but he tell me children cant take so much x-ray.. i know lar.. but i just want to know my son is alright!! den the senior doc cut in and ask wad's wrong.. thankfully he explain the whole situation.. at least he bother to explain what could cause the blisters etc!

4th - wanted to take the free shuttle bus back.. my sis called say she late for work.. DAMN!! have to take cab home again.. going to and fro with cabs recently.. BROKE!

5th - RHB called and tell me the cheque is ready.. luckily i ask issit collect at jln bt merah branch.. the lady tell me its a upper bt timah.. i told her i already requested it to be send to jln bt merah so what is this? she say she go chk and get back to me.. call me back and say we can have it courier down by tuesday.. i tell her no! i need the cheque urgently! i requested it to be sent to jln bt merah so why issit still at upper bt timah? i waited whole day for them to call and this is what i get? she went to check and the other guy call me instead.. he say the earliest by express will be monday.. i tell him no.. i cant possibly take another leave just to wait whole day at home for the cheque to be ready! i ask him wad time the bank close? even if he gimme on monday i also cant collect what!! he tell me the bank close at 4pm.. as long as got someone inside i can knock the door and get my cheque.. but i tell him i knock off at 6!! by the time i reach hm ard 7 or 8!! den finally he help me gt jln bt merah branch to issue the cheque instead.. very nice guy very flexible.. felt abit guilty to lash at him.. at least he rectify the prob.. but still, i super bu shuang!! cos beforehand i already not pleased with them!! ARGHS!!

6th - after collecting the cheque, received a call from childcare centre.. teacher ijah called and tell me if jabez on cast, i need to get approval letter from the doctor before he can come back to school.. WTF?! u call me at 5plus to tell me that.. the clinic is closed.. who can i ask to write the letter? the clinic will only open on monday!! even if the clinic write already, i must go back all the way to kkh to get the stupid letter!

i super hate the CC! small little things ask us bring the kids home.. think what? we need to work! if we can easily bring the kids home we dun need to put them in CC liaos! stupid teachers! ultimately, who to blame? MYSELF lor! shldnt have move back and stay with those ppl! if not, the CC will not be at sengkang but somewhere near my mum's place instead! super pissed off! and sam have to be reservist at this timing! and he also damn nice lar! ask him dun bring the kids to playground at near midnite dun wan to listen! kids fall down who suffer? the kids suffer and ME! he fucking hell in reservist!

i really cannot take it man! the house reno all under me.. ya lar cos i gao zeh so everything i must decide.. but u also must help out and read what are the things to consider before doing this or that mah! but no.. u happily play your KAW! very sick of everything! super duper sick!!

i wish 2012 will be a better year.. it better be!

those two days without kids and husband.. although i really miss the kids terribly.. i cried so bad when they left with my uncle.. but den those two days.. really very relaxing and precious for me!! at least i have that two days to breathe!!

- i really need to breathe!! -

2011-05-06T01:13:00.003+08:00

1:13am

been very very busy lately with our new house.. anyway, don't have the "kick" to update blog recently..

we have more or less confirmed on the renovation of our house.. havent started reno.. cos i keep change here change there.. as usual..=x but sad to say, it was not a design of my dream house.. bcos that wouldnt be practical.. i dun wan to end up spending even more for maintenance, or having it to change at a later part of time.. i wanted to hack the whole wall and extend the kitchen, build an island top and had glass all over the kitchen.. but if dear did heavy cooking the glass will wipe like siao! i wanted a built in dining table with a built in cushion seat.. nearly fulfilled for this but ended up dear saw a dining table that he liked and it was in a package so we got it..

we got the following as a package from Cellini @ Furniture Mall.. it was considered a steal!

total damage for the whole package that consists of tv console + coffee table + full leather 3+1 sofa + dining table = $5050! i ask for discount discount and more discount! very pissed with the saleswoman from tradehub21! the first day we went she told me all in was $3998.. i was super happy cos super great deal rite all in leh! so we purposely travel all the way to punggol and back to jurong the very nxt day after checking on the measurements.. think she advise on the WRONG set.. this is flow series more exp.. so she tell me if i want, she give me discount for tv console at 15% off.. so it would be around $1500.. i was super disappointed.. i called up Cellini @ IFC but a super rude lady picked up and ask me to come down if i am REALLY interested.. i told her i went before already just need her to refresh my memory on the price.. she rudely tell me, oh really? where are we located den? DAMNIT! didnt know ParkMall also has Cellini if not we would have went there as well! but anw, the salesguy name Shawn is super duper helpful and super duper nice! i think he's new? haha! cos actually.. if we want the tv console as well, only need to topup $1200.. and they had it printed black and white, display big big.. also mention there's 5% discount if using Maybank CC.. tradehub21 don't have still con me say give me 15% discount! stupid china woman! also nv mention certain CC got discount! luckily we really shop hard! LOL! so in the end, it was a saving of $448 for us! =)

and today finally settle on our aircon after much consideration.. we were considering,

1) daikin
2) mitsubishi starmex
3) panasonic

ended up with mitsubishi starmex system 3 inverter cos i still like the name more.. LOL! anyway, we got it from gain city @ $3119 inclusive of 5 years warranty upgrade to 1/2" armflex and 22 copper.. we were so tempted to get from AllBest @ IMM initially.. they were selling at $2750!! not inclusive of 5 years warranty but 1/2" armflex and 22 copper dunno have anot.. but after reading lotsa reviews from renotalk.com, the reviews abt the aftersales service is quite bad.. i actually seen it with my own eyes as well.. how they treat the other customers.. so to rest our mind, we settle at GC lor.. btw, prices for aircon increased the last time we saw 2 months ago.. at that point of time, everywhere was selling $2799.. now most shops are selling $2900+ and above.. being someone so noob.. i didnt know that aircon price increases instead of decreases! =x

we still have alot of things to buy..... getting really stress up with all the instalments and monthly bills.. hais.. i hope we can cope it.. guess have to depend on water and bread for the next 5 years..=(

things still need to get -

1) hob & hood
2) basin for kitchen & MBR toilet
3) fridge
4) washer
5) TV (optional cos mum already got us a LCD but i want a SMART TV! =p)
6) dryer (optional)
7) curtains
8) the kids room

please let me tio 4D lar guanyinma.. let me clear all the bills and i will guai guai after that.. will start saving!! i already "wake up" liao!! HELP!! LOL!!

- $$ come come! -

2011-04-12T22:20:00.003+08:00

10:20pm

gotten our keys already.. so many things to headache about.. target within these 2 weeks, i need to make a decision for the following,

- fengshui master
- ID or contractor (decide and sign contract with them)

everything is all $$, $$ and more $$!! =(

2011-03-03T21:39:00.003+08:00

9:40pm

super sway today! iphone sometimes can drive one crazy.. i am someone who CANNOT live without a phone.. i didnt charge my fone the night before, it went flat.. when i connected it with a usb to the computer wanting to charge it, the following appears!!

and GREAT!! i was phone-less for the whole day!! it was damn depressing for me k!! damn!! so i couldnt wait to get home.. started to search and find for the solutions for it.. i tried to connect to itunes, restore it but couldnt and was shown,

"the iphone could not be restored an unknown error occured (3014)"

super sian when i saw that!! and when i search through the web, everything seems soooo complicated i dunno what most of the forums are talking about!! UNTIL this website here talk about this error!!

http://blog.mcchouse.com/2009/08/iphone-os-301-update-error-3014.html

all i did was, search for the hosts file and got it deleted den did the restore again.. and TADAH! but note, it only works for windows vista computer.. very sadly, all my files were gone.. my last backup was last year! DAMN!! so so upset..

- super sway day! -

ror ter han ma 等你回首-Focus + 中文字幕

2011-01-15T18:00:00.000+08:00

5:57pm

Focus - Raw Tur Hun Mah

my current fav song! keep listening over n over again!

anw, found out something which im not supposed to today! makes me goes, "yawnz"! wasnt the least surprised..

btw, if not happy with what i type, just shoo off ya.. nobody force u to read my blog? stop barking!

2011-01-05T02:00:00.001+08:00

1:53am

can't get to sleep and decided to finish the instant noodles which yvette got it from taiwan! it's damn nice! and for the first time, i saw BIG chunky real meat in bowl noodles! i dunno if that's real meat or not but it tasted like one anyway and it's nice! it doesn't taste like flour or anything just MEAT!

she got me a savings book too! ultra cute! the cover says 富婆 which means rich woman in chinese! and beside is the 维力一度赞 instant noodles!

look at the meat! btw love the soup of the instant noodles! *thumbs up! i promise to buy these noodles back for her!! lol!!

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2010-12-31T14:21:00.003+08:00

2:22pm

in a few hours time, we will be entering a whole new year of 2011! there were lots of memories in 2010.. both good and bad.. really hope 2011 will be a wonderful one! which i believe it will be! =) last year resolutions,

new year resolution for 2010!!

1st.. BE STRONG!! not to drop tears so easily anymore!! do not want people to see me as a weak person anymore.. is it becos im out of AVM, i dun tear that often anymore!

2nd.. CHANGE JOB!! with better pay and prospects!! ive definitely completed this mission!

3rd.. get my diploma cert!! havent yet.. flunked 4 modules out of 8! but this year it shall be! hehe..

4th.. DO WHATEVER I WANT IN LIFE!! no more procrastination!! i want to be like yvette.. to live her life to the fullest.. as she and zach says.. im sucha procrastinator.. i have to change!! im getting old already!! sometimes, i still procrastinate.. but ive changed not that terrible already! hehe..

5th.. clear all my debts!! my creditor is none other than my hubby!! i want to clear everything that i owe him.. I AM the reason he is poor!! WAHAHAHAHAHA.. i am slowly clearing off my debts! which is a good thing! hehe..

6th.. lose weight on my own will!! although i predict.. i am visiting dr john sometime this week VERY SOON!! =p well, i didnt succeed on this one.. mayb i am just born FAT! =x

new year resolutions for the brand new year 2011,

1st get my diploma cert! ppl already get degree i still stuck at diploma!

2nd earn even more $$ for the family!

3rd able to change dear's car!

4th get a tattoo! always wanted one but scared of pain! WTH!

5th again, lose weight lar!

that's all for now! let's see whether end of the year, will i be able to achieve them again!

tml there's a NETRADIO gathering! everything not confirm yet but hopefully will be able to gather! miss those days really.. but like wad jessie says, those were the days but they are gone..=(

- once time is gone, it's gone.. -

2010-12-30T19:35:00.003+08:00

7:40pm

i came to know about HIM only recently from my brother.. he was looking at his youtube! and from then on, i fell in love with him! what the hell! he sing really omfg well! below are some of his video,

for full video can visit, http://www.youtube.com/user/miniachilles

these kind of ppl should be famous! some "singers" dun even sing as well as him!

2010-12-28T09:21:00.001+08:00

9.01am

currently at work.. super blue now! had a super long weekend only start work today.. den tml off again den back to work on wed n thur! y can't they just give us on leave all the way till next year? since it's e lau period nw, ppl is nt picking up calls etc? arghs!

just read in forum our block going 2nd inspection on 29th! meaning to say we will definitely not get the keys by this year.. sucks! den when?! sian! that day sneak into our flat.. but end up it was locked! so can only see from outside! it was damn thrilling ok! cos we end up kenna chased out by the construction worker there! LOL! anw, regretted getting the floor tiles frm hdb.. it was ugly! hais! but bo bian liao.. so sad! anw, snap some photos from the outside!

i am praying very hard to guanyinma to get my keys asap!!

btw, just for laugh! that day i telling dear y get me such gifts when we shld scrimp n save nw.. den jabez say cos daddy loves u mah! wah pengs! so surprise to hear it from him! lol!

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2010-12-26T12:39:00.001+08:00

12.20pm

Thanks to KOH family, we had a mini Xmas celebration at krissy place! We had potluck and also did gift exchange!

Salad macaroni from Joanna and old chang kee, sushi from me!

The big turkey from krissy!

Benjamin doing a grand opening for the turkey!

The sweet couple, Jason & Joanna!

And finally, I got the bags from krissy! I love them! These bags are actually auth but they are cheap bcos they r usually freebies that came with jap magazines or when u buy perfume, they came together with it.. So the excess are now in e market! Krissy is selling them at around $20 - $40? She's got alot of designs! So if u r interested can email her at happydays.shop@gmail.com

The following are those which I got for myself!! They are very small but just enuff for the barangs barangs for my kids.. The last one is damn small!! Can b used as cosmetics bag or put oranges for CNY suggested by krissy!! -,-;;

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Merry Xmas

2010-12-25T01:27:00.001+08:00

1.14am

Merry Xmas to all!

Today still need to go back office but not for work but to celebrate! Early morning go there start drink already! Pengs! It was fun! They catered food from Eatzi catering.. Food was not bad but neogarden is still my choice!

Went to search for jabber's power rangers shoes after work but to no avail.. We tried kiddy palace, mustafa, BHG, OG and John little all dun have.. Piangs! End up we settle for Ben10!! Den we bring them home and went out again by ourselves cos dear say Xmas gift give them shoes seems nt enuff.. He say jabez expecting toys not shoes so we go out and buy toys for them again.. Jabez most ma fan have to search and think what he will want.. Shyanne easiest! Anything oso can!

Reach hm, dear surprised me with my long awaited Prada Tessuto Wristlet! I wanted to get it myself the other day at ION! But black no more stock islandwide!! He called every outlets and they ask him try paragon.. Luckily still left the last 2 piece!!

Both of us have also booked the tickets to Taipei!! Going with ting and baofen on nxt yr march!! We got a super great deal from tigerairways.com only paid $242 for each pax!! So looking forward to it!!

Tomorrow will be Xmas celebration w krissy and Joanna family! Excited too! Love this year's Xmas!!

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2010-12-19T14:07:00.005+08:00

2:07pm

ytd went to Serangoon to meet up an ex-colleague from Merdeka.. he is now helping out his sis's contractor company.. both me and dear find him not bad.. but we are still keeping our options open! after comparing the prices between IDs and a contractor, it seems that the difference is HUGE! i was being quoted around 4k for kitchen by a contractor while IDs quotes me around 7k to 8k.. i am already 70% going to contractor but 30% of myself have no confidence in myself "designing" my own house! *arghs* fickle-minded again!

after that went Bliss Restaurant @ Punggol Garden for brunch! hmm.. i was craving for their Cordon Bleu Chicken or smth.. i ate it sibei many years ago.. i was HOPING still have.. end up really don't have! haha.. but ok lar their fish n chips not bad!

went over to Mega Discount Store @ Kallang to look at aircon prices.. staffs were busy, prices were not shown, we decided to leave the place instead.. home sweet home eventually! waited till my mum is back den we went over to Suntec for Electrical & Electronics fair.. nothing much to see leh.. their washer only got Electrolux.. the SONY TVs models left not much.. all display set kenna taken up! if not i dun mind getting their display sets! LOL! anw dear say for display set have to go on the very first day lar.. we're late! =( haha! but philips and toshiba seems to be having very very good sales.. ppl were practically "snatching"!! haha.. there were 2 booths selling aircons.. one is creativecool or coolcreative? the one opposite is All Best.. ive done abit of research on the forums so went over to All Best instead.. the sm who serve us is called, Bernard.. very honest and sincere guy.. but sadly cos theirs is the FIRST stop so we definitely have to go around first before making a decision.. will dropby Gain City later den decide who to take..

considering between Mitsubishi Starmex inverter and Panasonic inverter! dear say mit is boring just pure white.. he likes panasonic for having silver cover..-,-;; i like mitsubishi.. for being pure white! LOL!

going over to ahma's place later.. MJ time!!

- Mitsubishi OR Panasonic? -

2010-12-15T08:52:00.002+08:00

8:52am

been a long long time since i blogged! been really busy and stuffs.. lots of things happened..

no longer staying at sengkang.. no longer need to go out everyday to avoid seeing stupid faces.. hope we will have nothing to do with them in future.. at least i wont have anything to do with them anymore..=) and through this whole incident, it is proven and tested that NOT ALL MUMMIES LOVE THEIR KIDS!! some can becos of $$ or becos of MEN throw their kids one side..-,-;;

anyway, frivolous matters aside.. a brand new year is approaching! time really flies! i hope my big present during xmas will be our keys lar! pls pray for me! super excited about our new house.. been looking around for IDs, furnitures etcetc! hehe.. any good recommendations on IDs??

about my job, super shiok! i nv regretted coming to this line.. lol! we are on skeleton crews on past 2 weeks.. first week work 3 days, this week work 2 days.. last week of dec on skeleton crews again! sibei shiok! but that also means our commission will be very little for the month.. but no matter what still more than my previous jobs.. lols! i thank avm for leaving me with no choice to leave the co. without them, i would have continued to stay in avm and being a cheap labour still.. lols!! currently in holiday mood!! why dont they just make it as skeleton crews for nxt week as well?? arghs!! i feel like taking some breaks before a brand new year begins!! =x

life is great at the moment!! without the help of the maid, we are handling everything by ourselves.. it's tiring but it brings us closer to our kids.. i remember you saying, "i see how they gonna cope if im dead!" now that you're not around, let me tell you it doesnt makes any difference at all.. but both me and dear have realized the difference of not having hazel around.. she has been a great help! although she is quite blur at times.. but being a helper, she really consider very good liaos!! hope nxt time i can get this kind of helper also!!

went fortune telling some time back.. the fortune teller damn zhun! GEMS SHINE at Jalan Besar Complex! very zhun lor! although zhun but still need to do sales mah.. she ask us to buy some stuffs.. i immediately reject her.. but she sold a crystal pendant to my fren instead.. and she bought a small stone at $200+!! wth!! so beware!! go only if u can curb ur temptations to buy things!! lols..

- a brand new start.. but a good one! -

2010-11-01T01:01:00.002+08:00

1:01am

ive been reading alot about TAIWAN these few days as we are planning to go next yr around may to celebrate dear's bdae as well.. BUT!! just realised we are starting our classes nxt yr!! AHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!! im so so so so sad about it!! i was so excited about it can!! FML! FML! FML! so so sad!! i wanna go TAIWAN!! it seems so fun!! *sighs!! guess can only go after our studies.. nvm! in the meantime shall wait for good deals on air tix! LOL!

brought jabez for GUG early reading & writing trial class ytd.. so coincidence! met dean there! he also brought his daughter for the parents & baby classes! anw, jabez seems to enjoy it.. he say he wanna go there again! but not gonna enrol him into this yet.. still wanna try others.. any recommendations??

signed up for california fitness finally! issit an act of impulse? i dunno! hope i will go there regularly lor! haha..

my long awaited longchamp bag was also being dashed! i waited for like close to a month? join nana's spree end up no stock.. i am so sad! after she tell me the prices she got from europe directly makes me don't wanna get from SG lar!! but i am still laming for the victoires version!! *arghs* anyone going europe? hehe..

- again, can't sleep on a monday nite! -

2010-10-02T19:35:00.000+08:00

7:35pm

stupid old duck! chao gu niang!

Dinner with Zach & Yvette

2010-09-25T15:15:00.001+08:00

3.08pm

Ytd met up with zach & yvette.. We had soooooo much!!! Now I am still feeling darn bloated!!

Met up w zach first at buona vista mrt den we walked over to holland village.. It took us 45 mins or so to rch cos we lost our way!! Zzz!! By the time I rch Cha Cha Cha Mexican restaurant, I was half dead.. lol!! It was quite packed and e waiting time for food quite long.. Dunno issit cos I too hungry? Haha! Anw, the food are damn yummilicious! I love them all!!

Aftermath, we went over to Siam Reap Indochine for some drinks.. Ordered the Vietnamese rice rolls.. There was a tinge of mint in e spring rolls.. Not bad but not my type cos too veggie liaos.. Hehe.. I wanna go back for their fried spring rolls..!!

Den we pass by Everything with fries.. Although we are damn bloated.. But our guts tell us that it is a must try!! And we didn't regret of cos.. Must try their nutella milkshakes and nutella tart!! But damn sinful and only for chocolate lover!! Their fries were so so.. We ordered their garlic & herbs fries and curry flavored ones.. The former one taste like McDonald shaker fries.. Haha! But the price were affordable! So big bowl of fries for only $3.90!! My new hangout place for dessert shall be Everything with Fries!! <3!! By the way, they are closed at 1am!!

I think I have gained 5kg from ytd's meal itself!! LOL!! But it was all worth it!!

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Location:Anchorvale Dr,,Singapore

sick..

2010-09-08T12:29:00.001+08:00

12.24pm

finally could not take it anymore decided to take mc.. fever started on Saturday till today.. got worse.. having terrible flu plus bad dry cough now.. damn!! when one is sick one shld go out instead of staying at home.. mon and tues go work although feel terrible but nt as terrible as now staying at home.. kuku!!

now waiting for dear bring me go see doc.. hao xin ku ar!!

- virus pls go away! -

Location:Anchorvale Rd,Singapore,Singapore

2010-08-31T18:20:00.004+08:00

6:20pm

darn shiok! today 4 plus knock off liao.. hehe.. passed my first month probation.. hopefully able to pass the rest as well..=)

so so sian.. now old already.. last time can stay up till 3 or 4 plus den 6 wake up go work.. now i slp at 11 or 12 wake up at 7 go work also kan tired.. what the hell?!

last saturday went for babylovesdisco event! it's an event for the kids to dance @ DXO! i think it would be better if the music is R&B! the songs played are retro i think.. -,-;; but i like the part that they have magician show.. i really dun mind to go again if the songs played are something more "IN" lar!! =x

read from forums that we shld be getting our keys earliest by end of this year.. STRESS! we are so not prepared.. but also no choice lar.. we did make plans.. but apparently we are burden so we have to make our OWN plans.. LOL! not a bad idea though.. we are planning to ask my mum move in with us! =)

oh btw, there was once i heard somebody saying.. so young can give birth to so many kids cos they too free nothing to do.. for me, i say, the reason why you no kid because you are not even eligible to have one.. you are just not fit to be one's parents..=)

- keeping quiet -

2010-08-23T21:18:00.003+08:00

9:18pm

yesterday went TAKA baby fair.. nothing to buy really.. only stock up our wet wipes, buy panties for shyanne and thomas & frens toothbrush for jabez.. den pass by watson.. saw they having contact lenses promo, MAXI EYES buy 2 at $56, free another 2 boxes.. 3 tones one at $66.. i bought the 3 tones one.. it states makes eye bigger.. i regret buying ok.. super duper regret.. it is not comfortable and it DOES NOT make eyes bigger lar!! the current geo lens i am wearing is sooooo much better!! the color is also much more natural!! i so so so regret!!

NO MAXI EYES contact lenses for me please!! i still support GEO contact lenses!! *gRrr!! =(( waste my $$!!

visit sunset grill & pub @ seletar for the second time with dear and his frens for the 2nd time.. we tried the level 3 and level 8.. each of us had one level each.. by the time i had level 8, i can feel my blood rushing to my face.. and my ear seems to be blocked for a few mins.. LOL!! our next challenge, level 10!!

caught the manila hijacked bus on channelnewsasia.. the police there are really a JOKE! lols.. joke of the day man! damn stupid of the policemen.. really throw their own face.. imagine showing it live somemore.. *shakes head.. no wonder their country is still in this state.. hmmm...

- super random -

Work is great!

2010-08-19T22:26:00.000+08:00

10.20pm

today was individual target.. i manage to hit it so able to go home early den follow dear work.. lol!!

met a very nice customer.. he refer two customers to me! haha.. super nice lor! but I also today damn attitude! called up one customer she say not interested I immediately hung up the phone without saying byebye! lol!!

anyway, new campaign starting soon.. nv hope for better bcos this campaign worse den the current.. only hope it remains like now!!

- for the first time in life I derive happiness thru work! -

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2010-08-13T20:56:00.003+08:00
8:56pm

i am loving my job everyday! it gives me a very similar feeling as when i am in AVM! i like~ hehe.. and best part is, now i only work for myself! not for others! no more admin jobs for me! last time always do things for SM and when things go wrong, i get the blame.. now, good or bad, it's my own problem.. i prefer it this way..

went for company outing on 6 August 2010 at pulau ubin! it was hell for me upon reaching.. the chalet is damn rundown, no aircon.. so ulu.. i felt like dying and take the ferry back!! den at midnite, they suggested to tour the whole island! i am glad i went.. bcos the tour makes the whole trip worthwhile!! i have NEVER EVER walked in a forest in total darkness.. very super thrilling for me ok! call me suaku, i dun care! haha.. super adventurous for me lo.. and i keep holding on to one of my female colleague who is 2 years younger den me can!! WTF?! and she's super small sized!! i look super stupid!! im supposed to protect her!! *arghs!! haha.. the walk was super long.. i am the super duper lazy type lar.. but i really walk damn far with them lor.. like 2hrs plus walk?? OMG!! im surprise with myself lor.. we even passed by the NPCC site.. nelson, my team manager claim very haunted!! but nv see anything la.. anyway, im glad i did something out of the ordinary of myself! LOL! went back to chalet at near 3am.. me, ck, danielle, tomi and cazmen stayed up and chit chat while the rest were sleeping soundly!! although they are younger.. but they are mature ok!! pretty surprise.. hehe.. gives me secondary school feeling lar~ hehe..

i am glad to join this company outing.. at first i was pretty skeptical abt it.. i just join them for a few days.. it seems super weird to join them for chalet.. but i think bcos age gap not wide, all of them are very closely bonded.. so they are all very friendly are nice.. but sadly, most of them are leaving.. although only colleagues with them for 2 weeks or so, but still it's great to be once their colleagues! =)

added some of them in FB and realise some of them do have common friends.. lol.. singapore is just so small lar!! rebecca actually from the same pri sch as me!! lol.. i hope my excited-ness stays long lar.. lol!!

- love my job! -

2010-07-30T17:28:00.002+08:00
5.18pm

I passed!! I am officially an UOB staff!! Super happy can!! Out of 6 persons, only 3 is still in the team including me.. I was given a chance to role-play while the other two have to wait till Monday.. I passed!! Yeah!! It was a long and tough journey for me ok!! I hope the other 2 also pass lar if not have to start hanging around with the new group of peeps which I hope I don't have to.. They are nice ppl it's just that I am anti social.. Anyway, still a long way to go for me.. I'm seated right beside my team manager.. He can hear my preaching clearly.. Have to be careful and persistence if not kenna from him man!! Whatever the case is, I can start hitting my own targets!!

Anyway, these 2 weeks of training was a fulfilling one.. Dear kenna fan by me until bth and I've made alot of friends.. They were really nice and not selfish.. Willing to help one another giving encouragements.. Even if I couldn't pass my probation, I am still glad I chose this path!! =)

Big thanks to dear! Thanks to all the questions bombed by you otherwise I think oso cannot pass lar!!

- I did it!! -

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work again..

2010-07-29T21:24:00.001+08:00
9.18pm

currently at vivo waiting for dear to finish his work den have dinner at The Soup Spoon! my first time!!

anyway, was feeling rather moody for the half of the day.. I have started pitching alittle and I was alittle contented with myself until a colleague commented that I am actually lousier den the other guy.. I feel very very bad upon hearing that.. Made me super sian and low morale.. Hais.. I hope I will pass tomorrow roleplay.. If not, I really will lose my directions yet again.....

I thought I was good but actually I am not.. Really brings me damn down.. Super moody.. The rest say I am ok.. Just don't panic.. How to? Siansation!!!

I just want to pass this stage and start doing sales.. Pls pray for me!!!!

- I just need more time.. -

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2010-07-24T14:03:00.002+08:00
2:04pm

started my new job last monday, 19 july! new industry again.. this time round, banking.. selling credit cards.. haha! so those interested to get UOB CC or Cashplus can find me ok? LOL!

i am still not confirmed yet.. i pass my test paper.. still got role playing to go.. i hope i can pass the role playing.. only then i can start doing sales.. met some peeps.. they are very nice people! very friendly.. all are younger than me except one.. i thought i was the oldest! *phew.. getting old already! alamak! my trainer aka my team leader is a nice guy! and very good trainer! kinda sad one of them couldnt make it and had to leave though.. next friday will be the final whether i can still stay or not..

for the moment, i yearn to go work everyday.. dunno what happens after that lar.. haha! the atmosphere seems pretty tense up at the sales floor.. hmm..

nowadays so lazy to even switch on my laptop.. i will just surf facebook using iphone.. haha!! it's so convenient lar.. it even have ibanking app.. *gosh!

burn my friday nite.. while waiting for the kids to sleep, me and dear fall aslp as well..-,-;; any programs for tonite??

- FREEEEE~~ -

2010-07-09T09:18:00.003+08:00
9:26am

left AVM and joined SMC.. a totally new industry.. an industry which ive longed to tried!! i learn alot alot from there.. i would have stayed longer if my jobscope is more interesting.. the working environment is GREAT!! i get to interact with different level people, i get to take courses and upgrade myself every month or so.. they are very nice people and always so cheerful and happy.. everyday meeting different people.. but being a SCO there was too administrative for me.. it was not what i wanted.. thus i decided to leave.. also, since i only left 3 years of working life, i wan to get the most out of myself.. i wan to get a commission based job to know where is my limit.. i very much hope there is a day where i can go back to SMC as a Sales Manager.. not SCO.. although it was a mere 6 months or so, i feel appreciated unlike when i was in AVM.. i left AVM with a very bad impression.. making me feeling very lousy of myself.. even though i spent my stupid 2yrs plus there..

i thank my boss and Delia, the Sales Manager whom ive assisted for taking great care of me! i wasnt good enough for them.. always making silly mistakes.. ALAMAK! but they've been tolerant.. very nice to me!! Delia always buy lotsa sweets and tidbits whenever she came back from sales call!! Eileen, my director of sales taught me how to reply email!! WAHAHAHAHA!! now i know how to write grandmother story..=x also, she taught me alot which is out of work based.. i seriously feel very bad for leaving after they have spent so much time on me..=( a big THANK YOU to you both.. it had been great assisting you two!!

lunch treat @ HOOTERS from boss and manager!

beautiful card from my colleagues!

i don't know what is ahead of me.. it might be complicated, and even more politics.. but i want to try.. i have to try.. to know what is the best for myself..=)

- thank you! -

2010-07-07T09:20:00.003+08:00
9:21am

clear leave for yesterday and today.. it was sian!! but thinking of going back to work also SIAN!! on leave also don't know can do what.. no $$, no companion.. everyone working.. end up stay at home NUA!!

crazy over godfinger lately.. add me if you're playing!! my nick is vodkager lar.. expected.. haha!! although this nick now seems FUNNY.. but den im those person who prefers the old nick.. just like this blog.. although always felt like changing the url cos it has no longer become a place for me to rant like nobody's business, but end up also never change.. *sighs*

now no blogging mood.. i always come in here wanna blog but dunno how to start.. i guess its bcos it is no longer THAT private, what can i actually blog about? hated myself for being so dumb!! which ive always been..

went back to dr john.. although he say ive done a good job by not going back to last time's weight.. and there's no need to eat the medicine.. but i cant stand myself.. i did put on weight as compared to few months ago.. most of my dresses are too short for me cos of my extra FATS!! most of my tops cant wear due to bulging tummy!! although my hips have widen so much but surprisingly, only bottoms can wear.. hais.. its super frustrating when you go out see nice clothes and you dont look good in them.. i know i know.. eat medicine want to eat whole life meh?? but this is my choice, even if i die eating these medicine, it is my life, my choice..

i cant wait to start my new job.. i dunno what is ahead.. it is so different from my previous jobs.. i hope i have the perserverance.. i want to get out of these shits!!

- i can only envy.. -

2010-06-14T06:41:00.001+08:00
One fine day, dear finally brought me to the Japanese restaurant at ION which he had been talking so much about after having lunch with his colleagues!! He was saying until so powderful that I just gotta try it asap!! Haha..

Itacho Sushi Restaurant.. originated from Hongkong if I am not wrong.. pass by this restaurant umpteen times and heard that it's from HK and thought might not be fantastic since sushi shld be made by Japanese rite? Boy, I was wrong!!

Salmon sushi.. Very fresh and tender.. I dun eat raw stuffs.. I fun like fish except fish&chips.. But this salmon I totally love it and there's no fishy smell!!

Good quality beancurd skin being used here.. Not the normal beancurd skin that we eat at other Japanese restaurant..

Crabmeat and egg servings is pretty big.. I got pretty full eating two each!! The crabmeat is also not the imitation crabmeat that other jap rest. used.. love the egg.. it is again different frm other rest.

Must try their chawamushi!! The top layer taste somewhat like sharksfin.. Haha!! Crabmeat and prawn inside e egg..

Dear say this is a must try.. But when we went.. It didn't really taste fantastic.. I think ppl who loves unagi will like this..

Omg!!!! Soft shell crab.. I swear this is soooo different from those that I have eaten.. It has an onion smell.. At least I know I am eating crab becos others only can eat the shell.. They are not using the normal sauce but mayo~ which normally I detest!! But this time round the match is perfect!!

All this amounted to $32.. It is very worth it considered the quality and quantity!! The quality used are definitely better than most Japanese sushi restaurant.. The quantity are also generous.. I will definitely go back again!! And dear is right.. I will not even think of other places for sushis anymore!!

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2010-05-30T13:09:00.009+08:00
1:11pm

the BIG BABY's birthday just past not long ago.. it wasnt a BIG celebration or anything.. just very simple celebration at home.. i intended to just go out and have dinner buy a cake tat's it.. but his msn nick make me heart super uneasy to settle just simple dinner.. so i woke up in the afternoon, travel to compass point, went to ICING ROOM, make a cake, went to COLD STORAGE, buy the ingredients and whipped him some really really simple stuffs.. haha!!

the uncooked wanton.. so "nicely" wrapped right?! LOL!! receipe given by my aunt!

the chao tah wanton.. dear say got room for improvement!! LOL!! the top part of the crust is soooo hard to bite off.. they say my fire too small.. haha!! but for a first timer, the taste of the "XIAN LIAO" (the meat inside) is enuff.. very good alr!! LOL!! >BHB< i just mix minced meat, chestnut, alittle pepper and salt den add corn flour make it alittle sticky.. wrap them up, stick them up with egg.. and bring it to fried!!

the HAWAIIAN "pizza" the base is actually normal white bread..=x taught by my mum.. haha!! den i improvise it by kneading the white bread, making the bread thinner.. i feel that pizza crust thinner taste better.. den just add tomato paste.. i bought the LEGGO brand.. nice!! those used with spaghetti.. den add ham, pineapple chunks and mozarella cheese.. TADAH~!!

and lastly, my super CHIO cake for HIM! =x

btw, i made him bubble milk tea without pearls!! lols.. all the above are very very simple.. since i dun cook at all.. usually even my maggie mee is cooked by him..=x so u know how easy it is!! for bubble milk tea, just add coffee mate and green tea, shake it and it's ready to drink!!

on random.. for YONG TAU HU lovers.. this stall opens after 12mn.. at bukit merah view market.. the soup is nice.. but the queue kills.. we waited for like 1hr.. *zzz*

tomorrow is monday.. going back after a long week break.. SIAN!!!!!!!

steamboat tonight with my family!! =)

- fatty bom bom chi bom chi bom fatty bom bom ni dong bu dong wo shi fatty bom bom -

2010-05-25T02:28:00.003+08:00
2:28am

Nuffnang and National Family Celebrations 2010 Bloggers Family Pledge Movement

i saw this @ NUFFNANG and thought, ya.. time to commit some time to my mum.. although i still go back once awhile but usually at night without my kids.. she misses my kids alot.. errr.. ok to be frank, she very bias one.. always ask abt shyanne only.. LOL!!

so now, i hereby PLEDGE TO GO BACK ONCE EVERY 2 WEEKS WITH MY KIDS TO VISIT HER!! cant visit every week cos i still need to study.. and some weekends is to meet up with mummies friends so that the kids can play around with the other kids around their age..

i guess her grandchildren are the only ones that can make her smile now.. hehe.. this mummy here abit buay hiao bai huh..=p

also, i wanna PLEDGE THAT ALL WEEKENDS ARE SOLELY FOR MY FAMILY!! MY 2 KIDS AND DEAR HUBBY!! weekdays are usually worn out with work, school or friends.. weekends will now be solely for family bonding time.. it could be staying at home teaching them colouring or reading to swimming.. quality time will be spent with them..=)

without them, i don't know what my life would become.. am glad that they came into my life..=)

join this pledge movement now.. it is not about the tickets.. but use this chance to tell them how sincere you are, how much you really care and love them!!

NATIONAL FAMILY CELEBRATIONS 2010 (NFC 2010)

Organised by the National Family Council, National Family Celebrations is an annual event which celebrates and reinforces the importance of families and family life. This year, Singaporeans are encouraged to make a personal commitment to their families by being a part of the Singapore Family Pledge Movement.

To provide opportunities for Singaporeans to follow through on the pledges to their families, there are a myriad of activities under the NFC 2010 calendar – which will interest the young, the old, and everyone in between! NFC 2010 will be held from 25 May to 26 June 2010, and this year marks the 25th Anniversary of the Celebrations. For more information on NFC 2010, visit www.nfc.sg

2010-05-25T00:30:00.003+08:00
12:31am

after being in the workforce for so long... im still earning peanuts.. i need to do something about my life.. i definitely hate it when my closed ones ask me for $$ and yet ive got none to lend it to them.. the feelings sucks to the maximum.. i am THAT POOR!! i have ZERO SAVINGS.. after wrking for sooo long.. i dun have any savings.. really sucks.. and it's been soooo long since i buy branded.. the feeling sucks.. super sucks.. i hate it.. i want that prada bag.. i want that chanel wallet.. i wanna get out of poverty!! *arghs*!!

tml is an impt day for my bro.. his future depends on tomorrow.. i pray that he will be alright.. i hope he repent..

thank you my dear for your support, your care and love.. you always say you must have owe me last life.. next life become i owe you lar!! hahaha..

love this song..

- 你不会你不会你不会留残酷让我面对我不相信一起的回忆都损毁 -

2010-05-23T00:26:00.004+08:00
12:27am

yesterday was my first time plucking my tooth.. all my teeth was pluck out by myself.. but yesterday was different.. i visit the dentist and had it taken out.. i was super scared lar.. furthermore, it was wisdom tooth!! i nearly wanted to take it out few months ago.. but the pain went away.. now, it came back again.. i decided to had it once and for all.. i am soooo scared.. heard so many scary stories about plucking out wisdom tooth lar.. how pain it was..

i went to Supreme Dental @ AMK on thursday.. took xray before that.. they say the tooth is sitting on my nerve so i gotta visit a surgeon.. the next day i called the surgeon, he was not in.. DAMN!! so sway!! my mouth super pain la.. canot eat anything solid.. so i waited for another day.. went to The Oralmaxillofacial Practise @ The Camden Centre referred by Dr Joel Leong @ AMK.. met Dr Winston Tan.. he's a very funny guy.. he said i need to take out 2 lower wisdom tooth and 2 upper teeth by right.. but the right side can wait.. so i decided to wait lar.. i worried the pain will be excruciating.. the anaesthetics was given by another doc.. a very gentle and nice doc too.. was put to slp.. once i woke up, everything is over.. still having dumbness in my mouth.. haha!! i took out my teeth at 8.. the pain only come at around 12 plus.. the pain was bearable but damn irritating.. i couldnt slp.. so painful.. until i took a painkiller..

i am so lucky.. both dentist are very nice ppl.. Dr Joel Leong also very nice and caring!! he is not at all pushy.. unlike other dentist.. just keep anyhow ask you pluck teeth.. lols.. but he wasnt.. he's more concern on your condition.. Dr Winston Tan also.. he advise me to pluck out at once since can save $$ for anaesthetic.. but he know i seems to hesitate, he also say dun bcos wan save $$ den tahan the pain.. so he just ask me decide by myself.. anyway, the bill is not cheap.. the total bill was like $1400++ before GST.. after medisave deduction, i still paid around $670.. my heart was like so pain..

they gave me back my two big tooth.. i keep "playing" with it.. dear say, "can you don't so er xin and stop playing with it?!" wahahaha..

these are memories!!! so i definitely gotta blog it down!! haha!!

2010-04-26T23:48:00.003+08:00
11:48pm

received a forwarded email from yiingyng some time ago.. i decided it is a MUST for me to share!! since it is damn accurate!! lols.. try it if u're feeling bored..

i am【莎莎】what are you?? haha!!

医学上，直到今年才证实了我们的右脑、左脑各司其职，而这即是[呜莎呜莎]性格诊断的主要依据。1981年，获诺贝尔奖的罗杰·贝瑞发现，右脑和左脑各有其不同的特性，此为一切的起源。

如今，我们已知右脑擅长直觉、想象、空间认知等能力；左脑的专长则在于语言、计算和分析等等。我们可以从右脑、左脑的使用方式，看出一个人的习性（特征）。光是两手十指交握和双手交错抱胸这样的动作，即可让人一目了然。不论是你觉得难接近的人，或是心里十分在意的人，都会原形毕露。此外，你自己也是……如此，相信你的人际关系一定会愈来愈好。

根据下两页的组合结果来诊断



在日本引起热烈反响的“呜莎呜莎”性格诊断，即是根据医学上的研究，由一个人两手十指交握和双手交错抱胸的动作，将人的性格分成【呜呜】、【呜莎】、【莎呜】、【莎莎】4类。
右手大拇指在下的人属于【呜】，反之为【莎】；右手臂在下的人属于【呜】，反之为【莎】，此组合结果再根据男女差异，可将人区分成8种性格。

呜呜女
性格：莽莽撞撞的挑战者
就女人而言，这是最具冲击性的一种性格类型。因为一切皆依照本能行事，想到什么便勇往直前，没有人能够阻止你。
由于依直觉行动又保有个人风格，因为引起四周人的兴趣，并经常成为个性独具的万人迷。只不过，因为拥有甚为女人的自觉和矜持，不会初次见面便蓦然露出本性。
好奇心旺盛，最爱挑战。即使面临突如其来的危险，仍能沉着冷静的应对，以优雅的姿态顺利解决，拥有令人不可思议、对困境掌控自如的能力。虽然会没来由地怀抱自信，不过一旦遭到强烈的指责，却出乎意料地也有脆弱、敏感的一面。不过在短暂反省之后，大多又会故态复萌，重蹈覆辙。
在饮酒等聚会上一旦兴致来了，就会强拉对方跟着自己的步调，还会突然指控地大笑、大哭或发怒，毫不顾忌旁人的目光。
挑选物品时，亦是着重外表更甚于实质内容。例如，明明看不懂英文，却会因色彩或者装帧精美而购买原文书。选购内衣时也是着重设计样式，因此常会买到尺寸不合的产品。与人谈话时，肢体语言很多，话题也经常跳来跳去。基本上，此类型的人是不听别人说话的。时常不管对方在说什么，只想滔滔不绝地将自己想说的话一吐而尽。

工作：凭感觉闯江湖的一飞冲天型
这类人属于喜好分明的自我型。对于凭专业嗅觉渡过难关的工作情有独钟，感觉非常敏锐。一旦灵光乍现，便迸发巨大能量，获得前所未有的成果。遇见能激发自己新潜能的伯乐，便会精确且积极的打成目标。
另一方面，不喜欢勤恳踏实地下功夫，也讨厌被人编派不合理的工作。只要稍微不感兴趣便意兴阑珊，草率行事。只要唠唠叨叨的冗长会议或是说理似的对话一开始，便自个儿在脑海中神游。因为容易厌倦，所以难以持续同样的工作，但另一方面，此类型的人，即使工作环境改变，也坚持活出自己，生命力十分强韧。在团队合作中会显得惴惴不安、缺乏自信，因此比起待在组织里，更适合一个人单打独斗。

金钱：钱财乃身外之物是她的信条
比起思考要不要花钱，到底想不想要这样的东西，反而是这类人率直且优先考虑的因素。购物时也不会仔细考虑是不是要“奖励自己一下”，而是只要看中意、想要的话，便不顾后果，想尽办法弄到手。
有钱就花，没钱就不花或是向人借贷，是个“船到桥头自然直”的随遇而安型。与其说她挥霍浪费，不如说是对金钱本身根本不感兴趣，不会受它束缚。
因此，对于储蓄等也很不在行，账面上虽然有结余，但马马虎虎过得去而已。
用钱也没有计划，以现金花费，纵使捉襟见肘，也会找晚上的工作来做或是觅得金主，以百折不挠的精神渡过难关。就算自己已经破产，也不会想得太严重，属于不会放在心上的类型。

恋爱：恋爱主义之上的天雷勾动地火型
“此刻心里是否小鹿乱撞？”此一单纯的心情为[呜呜]女自身唯一的恋爱准则。此类型的人不会谨慎地判断对方的本性，而是凭外表、感觉，或是对方所散发出的气息就一见钟情。
一旦喜欢上，便不在意自己的情况或是对方的立场，积极投入，爱火愈烧愈旺。借由“凸现自己”、“让对方注意到”、“与其交谈”等，让对方渐渐被自己吸引，几乎所有心仪的对象皆能手到擒来。
一旦被爱神的箭射中，即使是邂逅当天，也会顺着本意，毫不犹豫地献身。并反倒认为，正因为是“中意”的对象，所以没有必要浪费时间。
不过，因为重视“心动的感觉”，恋情一旦变得公式化，很快便感到厌倦，并迫不及待渴望新的恋情。
若是出现新的目标，便会舍弃一切的羁绊，断然投向新人的怀抱，是个对已逝恋情丝毫不留恋的女丈夫。

呜呜男
性格：永远乐观的自我陶醉型
[呜呜]型的男人会依循直觉式的意念或印象行事。率直而天真，简直就是表里一致的老实人。那直率的个性，通常会赢得旁人的好感。
由于总是正面思考，即时失败，当事人大多也不觉得那是失败，因此不会闷闷不乐，很快便能转换心情。虽说如果感觉对了，即专心一意的勇往直前，但由于[呜呜]型的男人偶尔会展露左脑的逻辑思考能力，因此为使他的行为有个正当理由，会用理论作为武装。只不过，那结论原本即是由合理的理论导出，灵机一动脱口而出，很容易被人找到破绽，一旦有人冷静的将他戳破，他便会如连珠炮般的说出一对意义不明的话，或是千篇一律的辩词，以图混淆视听。
[呜呜]男的兴趣始终如一，对于喜欢的事物会彻底投入,并不懈怠的钻研,因此往往不知不觉就成为该领域中的第一人。反过来说，他对于没有兴趣的食物漠不关心，很容易让人一眼就看穿。
正在兴头上时，[呜呜]男是炒热现场的最佳气氛制造者；反之，便像空转的机器，让四周的气氛跌至谷底。即使如此，本人却常常不以为然，是个乐天、幸福的人。周遭朋友如果了解他是这一类型人的话，应该会相处的十分愉快。

工作：我行我素的独行侠
专场领域非常突出的才子型人物。一般来说，由于具有所谓的艺术家气质，对于有兴趣的事物便疯狂的一头钻进去。也适合做个碰运气的创业家，拥有昂贵地段的高级大厦并非不可能的事。
此类型的人，如果职务上适才适所，既能发挥强大的领导统率能力。一旦作出决定，便惯成到底，并能迅速作出判断。另一方面，若外界的评价与自己所认为的有所落差，则会显露出一副烦躁的样子，遇到没有乐趣的工作，就像换了个人似的，全无干劲。身旁经常围绕一群拥护他的支持者，也是[呜呜]男的特征之一。为了自己和周遭的人着想，最好避开非要团队合作的工作，及例行性事务。要让事业成功，必须有个像经济人般从旁给予支持的伙伴。

金钱：灵活运用金钱的赌徒
由于[呜呜]男运用金钱是受直觉和本能驱使，不擅于一点一滴的储蓄，喜欢用金钱来衡量自己的成就，所以不但赚钱时大手笔地投资，花钱时也很大方，毫不吝惜。这种人不愿作假账、踏踏实实地赚钱，因为嫌麻烦。
遇到大好机会，或是为了想做的事，便不考虑预算，大笔大笔的投入资金。第六感敏锐，若让他发挥所长的话，必能打捞一笔，赌中大奖也非梦事。不过，此类型的人只要走错一步，参与高风险的投资，即会背负庞大债务。无法从失败中汲取教训是[呜呜]男的弱点，但他不以失败为失败，也可以说是拥有强韧的生命力。

恋爱：认定了就向前冲的一见钟情型
[呜呜]男与人交往很率直，没有性别的隔阂。由于给人好印象，让人对他没有戒心，因此在聚会中，往往是“红花中唯一的绿叶”。即使在那样的场合也不会不自在，很快就能融入并打成一片。但那绝对不表示他有女人缘，而是因为大家“没有把他当男人看”，只是当事人浑然不觉，反而连番会错意，以为“这女孩莫非对我有意思？”，属于超级乐观型。
自己一见倾心坠入情网的机率很高，心中爱火一旦点燃，便千方百计展开追求攻势。然而，很容易不知不觉就为热恋中的自己沉醉，是否赢得对方的芳心倒在其次。在陷入自我得意之前，反而常会不自觉迷上对方，必须小心。
这类型的人贪求快乐，所以对性的屏障很低，只要彼此有意，很快就会发生关系。比起心意相通，[呜呜]男更热中于玩乐，享受追求肉体上的快乐。
基本上是个喜新厌旧的人，所以通常会找特殊行业女郎或性玩伴解决性事。假使交往的对象是处女的话，便不会三心二意到处劈腿，由于马上就会认真起来，所以和对方分手的可能性相当高。就算故作冷酷，也会立刻露出马脚，所以最好先做好心理准备。

呜莎女
性格：为人温婉、有人情味型
[呜莎]型的你，让人感觉温暖、有女人味。不但能察觉对方的心情，还善于思考最佳的应对方式，折中妥协。这么一来，不知不觉中便掌控了对方的情感，让对方随自己起舞。此类型的人不会强出头，而是在背后支持他人。
总是给人沉着稳重、待人处世佳的印象，及“无话不可谈”的安全感，是一旦被人期待、受人请托，便无法拒绝的类型，即使牺牲自我也要关照他人。不过，如此尽心尽力，对方却依然无法了解自己的心意，或是拒人于千里之外的话，对于这种自我中心的人，[呜莎]型的你会毅然决然撒手不管。相反的，若是一听到有人说“辛苦你了”、“谢谢”，心情便立刻好转，进而甘愿为对方鞠躬尽瘁。基本上是个很好的听众，遇到能够看穿自己并予以照顾的人，也很懂得对他依赖。
生性浪漫，一旦相信一个人就深信不疑，因此若是幻想破灭，或遭人背叛，便大受打击，十分沮丧。是个好奇心旺盛的行动派，任何事都想体验看看，增加见闻。
不过，有了某种程度的理解之后，热情便急速冷却亦司空见惯。

工作：巧妙的鸭子划水式领导
[呜莎]女在工作上不会直接站在前头指挥，而是慢慢取得对方的信任，再审不知鬼不觉地一步步完成工作。属于一边审度对方和自己伙伴的心情，一边巧妙地加以引导的类型。尤其在面对自己有兴趣的工作，或想试试身手的企划时，更是懂得如何引导事情的发展。
此外，她灵活的交涉手腕，转眼间便网络了一批可用之材，让众人惊讶连连。
虽然看重工作的成果，但被别人夸奖“你做得很好！”，确实令[呜莎]女最有成就感的事。说她是为了这句话而工作也不为过。因此，与其从事个人单打独斗的工作，或是必须消化责任配额的业务工作，不如团队共同打拼，或是负责服务、接待客人的职务来得适合她。

金钱：赚来的钱用来自我投资
爱钱，而且尤其爱赚钱。不过，那并不是为了储蓄，通常是为了实现自己的兴趣或者想尝试的事物。由于好奇心旺盛，常常发现周遭形形色色的事物就想体验看看，一旦钱积少成多手头宽裕之后，便常常梦想着旅行、运动、珠宝、美体护肤……等等，不知道要先尝试哪一样才好。
与其为了将来而忍耐储蓄，[呜莎]女宁愿尽可能地让现在过得充实，所以就算钱花光了也不在乎，“到头来有所成长、快乐的话，就够了！”是她的座右铭。
此类型的人绝非生性浪费，不会打肿脸充胖子借钱消费。倒是会当不住人情压力，只要有人拜托便无法拒绝，很容易就把钱借给别人，因此要特别当心！

恋爱：情义、技巧两者并重型
爱情的开端几乎都是一见钟情。凡事以恋爱为优先，为了让对方对自己倾心，会投注全部心力。直到两人交往前，不论是对方的条件、一举一动和状况都会细心地注意，并能冷静地处理。
不过，[呜莎]女一旦陷入热恋，与生俱来的自制力便荡然无存，完全不在乎旁人的目光，全力冲刺爱情。
但另一方面，一谈起恋爱，出乎意外地，其好奇心和兴奋感便会急速下降。尽管如此，她依然能运用来自丰富经验的高超技巧，让对方毫无察觉地享受恋情。
基本上由于为人殷勤，具有全力以赴的本质，在性爱上也会利用自己所懂得的技巧，取悦对方，并了在其中。
而随着时间推移，热情虽渐渐冷却，但对对方的情义和爱护的心理却愈发强烈。
到最后变成母亲般，无法狠心舍弃对方，极可能在分手时陷入泥淖，难以脱身。
正因为十分了解对方的感情，更容易受到当场气氛的摆布，迷迷糊糊地就被情感束缚，尽管好几次决心分手，却依然拖拖拉拉地交往着。为免对方日后纠缠、骚扰，切忌要妥善分手，与对方成为好朋友。

呜莎男
性格：重情义的大哥型
[呜莎]型的男人，凡事以印象、直觉作为基准，再加上自己的理解，作为行动准则。不为旁人所左右，确实地按照自己的步调行事。
虽然表面一副冷库，、粗鲁的样子，实则很重感情，一旦信任一个人，便为他赴汤蹈火在所不辞。即使故作老练世故，其实却拥有一颗纯真的心。凡事尽心尽力坚持到底的[呜莎]男，也常常成为同性所依赖、仰慕的大哥。
另一方面，由于对人的好恶仅凭一时的印象，所以有时对人会很严厉，遇到不懂规矩的无礼之徒，便毫不留情地教训他；或是一旦讨厌一个人，就不愿与他来往。此外，常常受到既有印象的束缚，自己无法立即修正，因而让人觉得冥顽不灵。好奇心旺盛，是个爱做梦的浪漫主义者。喜欢尝试各种事物，但因受到左脑的理性抑制，不会莽撞行事，保持万分谨慎的稳健作风。虽然不会一败涂地，但有时候会感到自己魄力不足，陷入进退维谷的窘境。
在饮酒等聚会上，[呜莎]男能迅速掌握现场气氛，很有技巧地带动大家，让场面更加热闹。与人对话也很在行，想必十分受到大家的喜爱。

工作：行侠仗义的首领人物
工作是生命的全部！以此为座右铭的他，总是怀抱理想，为了得到自己认可的结果而竭尽所能，是个拼命三郎。
会把和自己关系好的对象拉拢到身边，成为当中的领导者，善于灵活运用交际手腕。
有幸遇到值得尊敬的工作伙伴时，便会发挥无穷的潜能。相反地，若是单枪匹马，或与共事的伙伴和不来的话，就会累积很大的压力。对于负责经营和企划的工作得心应手，但似乎不擅长处理遵照指令的例行性事务。

金钱：收放自如的随心所欲派
由于同时具有以能力来评断他人的严酷面和情义相挺得温情面，因此常令人感到困惑不解。获得他人认同，是令[呜莎]男最有成就感的事，所以，此类型的人应该不是和成果不易显现的工作吧。
由于基本上有份工作，有收入进账，想要花钱时懂得妥善调配，该花就花，该省则省。
虽说不会冒险投资，但也不喜欢缩衣节食的计划性储蓄，所以开支或许不少。手头宽裕时，便大方请客、马上投资前景看好的股票；阮囊羞涩时，也很懂得自我节制、找人买单。属于就算钱包里只有50元也能过一天的类型。人品不会因为有钱或没钱而改变。
对于金钱的嗅觉很敏锐，所以一旦发现投资理财的机会，便能稳扎稳打地获利。从来不会去赌博。

恋爱：凭感觉闯江湖的一飞冲天型
[呜莎]型的男人不考虑地位、条件，处于本能地坠入情网，是个爱情至上主义者。正因为如此，他也强烈地渴望“被人爱”、“受人欢迎”。只不过他一开始会暂时不动声色，先在心里仔细推敲作战计划，因此也有精于算计的一面。
随着对象的不同，他时而故意表现的冷淡，时而给人意外的惊喜，借以凸显自己的存在感。对方如果有反应，便一鼓作气乘胜追击。明明热情澎湃，但绝对不打没有把握的仗，因此恋爱成功的几率可说是很高。
一旦交往，便会为对方付出一切取悦她，或相反地依赖她，爱得很深。因此，对女友的要求也多，只要有些微的龃龉，便表露出压抑已久的猜测、嫉妒，恋情很可能就如反掌般迅速冷却。
只不过，[呜莎]男原本即是没有爱情便活不下去的人，对女友的迷恋也深，因此分手之后想必仍念念不忘吧？尤其是被女友甩得时候，受创更是巨大。
对于性爱，虽然想忠于自己的本能追求肉体的快乐，但相对于性行为本身，他更重视做爱得过程。意思就是说，[呜莎]男称得上是甜言蜜语的高手。专心一意地在床上营造甜蜜淫乱的气氛。
如果结了婚，虽然不求家人间的感情很亲密，但把家庭看作自己的城堡，因此会好好守护着它。

莎呜女
性格：乐于助人的大姐大
[莎呜]型的女人，同时拥有铁面无情与温情主义的特质。她既能冷静地观察，仔细分析对方的性格或现场气氛，又能体贴对方的心情，给与无微不至的照顾。
她的铁面无情，令人感觉很有男子气概和责任感，因而在同性间扮演“大姐头”或“师傅”的角色，受人爱慕。自然而然地吸引人靠近，形成紧密的人际网，并能彼此保持适当的距离交往。由于很懂得如何引起人的共鸣，即使在饮酒聚会的场合，也可以与众人打成一片，炒热现场的气氛。不过，[莎呜]女即使待人接物亲切和善，仍然时时警醒着权衡情势，随时掌握状况。很多时候无意中就让她占了便宜。
只不过，一旦燃起她的温情主义，一不小心很容易就关照过了头，往往不经意地便多管闲事。由于好打听内幕秘密，因而很在意旁人的言论和面子，时时留意别人对自己的看法。尤其是对自己心意对象的想法和一举一动，更是随时警觉，并迅速调整自己配合对方，努力想要赢得对方的赞赏和好印象，但也因为这样而迷失了自我。由于考虑穿着打扮要能够立即付各种状况，因此旅行时总是带过多的行李。

工作：做事有诀窍的统筹者
[莎呜]女能确实掌握事情的关键，让业务顺利推展。她的人际沟通能力一级棒，很会带动气氛、附和别人，属于多管闲事型的人。善于沉着冷静地洞烛先机，让工作进行得很有效率。
在会议上，当讨论偏离议题时，她能够技巧圆润地将讨论导回正规。适合从事制作女性商品、信息科技公司的董事长秘书等职位。
只要是心意对象的请托，即使不合理也无法拒绝，因此可能会工作过度，搞坏身体。并常常因为深得部署或上司的信任，而被过度依赖，工作量大增，渐渐无法理清自己工作的目的和责任，陷入两难的局面。虽然偶尔会发生不像自己会犯的失误，但因为个性讨人喜欢，大多会得到别人的原谅。

金钱：拥有财富既是幸福
“有钱的地方就有幸福”是[莎呜]女的座右铭。很爱钱，平日总思考着要如何增加财富。由于以金额这样严肃的数字为衡量基础，也连带会影响到她购物的心情，所以只要有钱就感到无比幸福，反过来说，囊中羞涩时，连心情也会荡到谷底。心情好坏经常与财富多寡成正比。
由于贪求“俗又大碗”，因此积极寻觅便宜的商品或是B级的美食飨宴。
非常喜欢别人请客，自己则一毛不拔，禀性中带着吝啬的潜质，相当精明能干。属于积少成多的储蓄型人物。由于渴望财富增加，所以也会积极从事股票买卖等理财投资。

恋爱：重点攻击的专家
[莎呜]型的女人兼具男性的冷静判断和女性的温柔体贴，处处关照别人，因此大多很有男人缘。不过，也因为这样，对任何人都和颜悦色，给人八面玲珑的感觉。
她能够瞬间判断出对方是恋爱、结婚或是交朋友的对象，妥善掌控自己的情感。其中，对于被划归为恋爱对象的目标，会不吝投注心力与热情。
一旦锁定目标，便使尽各种花招将对方弄到手了。依赖、被依赖、利用女色，或对他不理不睬，在掌握恋爱的窍门之外，更一进一退地操弄感情，看着自己逐渐占领对方的心。想必恋爱的成功率相当高吧？
在性爱方面，会尽可能满足对方的需求。即使是变态的行为，也宽容以对。但同时也会精打细算，追求自我的快乐，因此能否体验到绝妙的性生活，全凭交往的对象如何。
不过，[莎呜]女会擅自在恋爱和热情、结婚和经济之间画上等号，并被此过度局限，因而往往无法畅快地谈一场恋爱。生性严谨，却在心里幻想着如烈火般燃烧的热情，然后自个儿一头热，有时会让对方却步，必须注意。

莎呜男
性格：冷静又灵活的智囊型
[莎呜]型的男人能够客观且正确地掌握情势，得出合理的结论，并将此结论转换成可以打动人心的说法或做法，诉诸人。凡事喜欢探求隐藏在背后的真意，再加以分析，不但能看透对方的状况，还能用言语巧妙诱导对方，是个沟通技巧高超的人士。常被人征询意见，并冷静地找出稳当、容易理解的解决方法，因而受人尊敬。
总是与人保持适当的距离，维持君子之交。待人接物虽然和善，但那距离感有时也会让人感觉冷冰冰的。不喜欢与人有所争执，一旦同伴之间发生口角，[莎呜]男很懂得如何让双方不失颜面又圆满地平息纷争。只不过，容易配合对方的心情和步调，使得[莎呜]男经常成为善于妥协、八面玲珑的人，对于坚持自己的意见或真正的想法很不在行。
为了实现自己的兴趣或目的，[莎呜]男心甘情愿勤恳地下功夫，由于具有研究热忱，知识广博，给人很聪明的印象。一旦做得顺手，便以其魅力开始向旁人推销。另一方面，由于讲求效率、不做无谓的努力，若是感觉勉强很快就放弃，意图走一条安全、没有困难的路来解决事情。对此，想必也有人会觉得不满意吧？喜欢看情报信息类的杂志，容易把流行信息当做知识来吸收，因而每每少了最重要的品味，而显得偏离原意。

工作：担任军师、参谋的关键人物
[莎呜]男不喜欢亲自站上前线，而是属于担任军师、参谋的要角，以掌握实权的类型。根据确实的情势分析，思考出其不意的作战计划。对[莎呜]男来说，工作的成果倒在其次，他最喜欢的是整个过程，及企划思考。
他能随心所欲地发挥上下、左右高度的调整能力，享受讨价还价、沟通协调的乐趣，因此适合在团队合作中负责企划的工作。
由于原本就不是个工作狂，所以总是冷冷地面对业务上的事情。只有对自己感兴趣的工作才会跃跃欲试，投注热情、努力钻研，不过一旦要冒险，随即意兴阑珊，当成例行公事。属于做事很有效率，一旦投入便忘我的类型。他的果断，无人能出其右。

金钱：力求安定的筹划高手
在金钱上，[莎呜]男希望能经常保有余裕，以便灵活运用。反过来说，金钱即是他行动力的源泉，钱的多少，决定了[莎呜]男的行动范围和心情。
消费购物属于谨慎型，但所花的金额，并不取决于物品的价值，而是与自己的兴趣多寡成正比。
时时谨记要为“万一”做准备，因此未雨绸缪，甚至考虑到意外的开销、暂时没有收入、赡养费等久远之后的未来，而经常保持某种程度的储蓄。就算没有储蓄，也会千方百计地筹钱。虽然他不属于节省型，但也不喜欢人家挥霍无度。
由于对钱具有敏锐的嗅觉，会灵活运动、以讨价还价来增加财富。

恋爱：重视可能性的现实恋爱注意者
对[莎呜]型的男人来说，自己是否喜欢对方倒在其次，优先考虑的反而是“跟她是否有可能谈恋爱？”、“她对我有意思吗？”等等。
他会先考虑自己与对方的条件、情况等所有客观情形后，再决定谈恋爱的对象。就算是绝世美女，对于不可能谈成恋爱的女性，他则不抱任何兴趣。
待人处世佳，谈话技巧高，不会冷嘲热讽，所以人缘不错。但由于只对与自己背景、条件相合的女性展开追求，很可能因此错过大好机会。纵使被认为是高不可攀的女性接近他，但因认定她并非恋爱对象，便轻率以对，常常让身边的人惊讶不解。
相反的，只要是符合自己设定标准的女性，他便大胆追求，依据交往的对象随机应变、花言巧语一番，因此成功率似乎很高。即使失败，反正[莎呜]男原本就是灵活、不呆板的人，也能马上转换对象。
在性爱方面也会因应交往对象的不同，在床上透过各种方法摸索出对方是属于何种类型，并满足她的需求。虽然善于满足别人，但自己却不够尽兴，对吧？
基本上性格柔弱，不好与人相争，喜欢平淡、稳定的交往方式。适合保持适当距离、冷静的爱情长跑。从这个意义上来看，结婚对象即是最速配的对象。

莎莎女
性格：成熟干练的领导者
接受和传递讯息皆由左脑执行、属于[莎莎]型的你，是女人中最有男人气概的类型。凡事都能条理分明地说出一篇大道理，让对手哑口无言。见到你迅速打败对手的英姿，周围的人甚至会肃然起敬。另一方面，身为女性的你绝不宽贷，更加深别人的敬畏心，还称呼你为“钢铁之女”……
自尊心强，正义感也比常人多一倍，再加上辩才无碍、所向无敌，所以一旦成为自己的人，即是最值得依赖的对象；而若成为敌人，则是最棘手的类型。为人一本正经，又不会讨人欢心，偶尔还有点神经质，对人又冷淡，很容易让初次见面的人感觉“难以相处”。不过，[莎莎]女也有处世灵活的一面，若是考虑立场，认为展现女性本色较有利时，就会一百八十度大转变、判若两人，表现出一幅惹人怜爱的样子。
虽然明白在饮酒聚会上得大而化之，别太拘泥小节，但不会与人持续太久没有内容的谈话。由于讨厌冗长乏味的交谈，有时也会惹不住大发议论起来。虽然是女性，但却善于说教和发表议论，并对听不懂自己谈话内容的人很冷淡。凡事追求完美，服装也讲究质量。由于此类型的人容易累积压力，让心情放松这件事也很重要。

工作：架势十足的女丈夫
此类型的人架势十足，深受他人信赖；。总是积极向要得出正确的结论。因为充满干劲和毅力，而成为部门里举足轻重的要角，也是支撑公司的梁柱。具有对于无法认同的事，会诚心诚意地与对方沟通，确实得出结论的男子气概。由于是个完美主义者，办公桌上总是整理的井井有条，连茶水间里的专署茶杯中都不留意丝茶垢。
正因如此，她很在意别人的缺点，常常忍不住提醒对方。一旦与自己意见相左，便故作冷静地写封措辞严厉的信诘难对方，小心做得太过分！在工作上，很重视自我满意度。“影印纸的采购比上个月便宜了10元！”这类没有人会注意的小事，却会让她大感兴奋。

金钱：节约皇后
在金钱方面，[莎莎]女作风稳健，总是按照计划用钱。每个月的支出和收入经常记在脑子里。一旦决定要存钱，便每个月一点一滴地存，就像例行公事一样，很可能不知不觉就存到了上千万元也说不定。只要没有超乎寻常的开销，存款肯定会持续增加。
她时时不忘捡便宜。例如在钱包里藏有各式各样的折价券，只在每周的特卖日才会大采购等等。不过那绝不表示她很小气，只是讨厌无谓的花费。想着如何减少浪费，会让她有种幸福感。
对于抑制很想要得东西会再三考虑，即使是下定决心要买的时候，还会找个“奖励自己”之类的理由，不然便买不下手。

恋爱：满脑子胡思乱想的女王陛下
[莎莎]女凡事总是想太多，以至于裹足不前。明明还没开始交往，脑袋里便满是一堆妄想。比如说，不过是一起吃顿饭，便幻想着蜜月旅行的地点、要生几个孩子之类的事。
要展开追求之前，会向共同的朋友打探对方的身家背景，从外围进攻，写信还会打好几次草稿，对于模拟恋爱战略丝毫不敢大意。
但往往做着做着就累了，意兴阑珊，爱火熄灭。虽然事前做了诸多准备，但出乎意外地，有时为了一点小事她也会立刻放弃。
对于自己主动向对方表白抱持十分谨慎的态度，反而使得她无法招架别人直接的追求。
就算是跟自己喜欢的类型完全相反，也会不知不觉便接受对方。有时最后竟然还会确信“此人即是我的真命天子”。
乍看之下似乎守身如玉，对性事却出乎意料地毫不防备，就算是一夜情，事后也不会留下纠纷，从某种意义上来说，她把欲望当做是在尽义务。
不过，一旦密切交往后，对享乐的要求就会变多，渐渐露出虐待狂的本性。若是找到最佳伴侣，便会死心塌地爱着那个人，反过来说，就是死缠着不放。

莎莎男
性格：附有数字化装置的正义之士
对于接受和传递讯息皆由左脑执行的[莎莎]男来说，判断事情的基准就是“正不正确”。
凡事都从正面着手研究，热中于数据、讯息的收集和分析，会因自己不知道的情报缺失而有弄错的疑虑，如此稳扎稳打的你，想必也赢得许多人的信赖吧？朋友们还视你为“博学先生”，非常器重你。
做事讲究“步骤”。由于比任何人都害怕承担风险，属于一个个解决问题、采取按部就班的类型。如果中途被全盘推翻的话，会有很大的压力。脑袋里总是条理分明的你，喜欢有逻辑性的对话，觉得谈话概括、笼统，或用字遣词模棱两可的人很随便，不想成为那样的人。此外，与其好几个人一起杂谈，你宁可一对一地慢慢深谈。由于不善于体察人的情感和意图，所以会犯本质性的错误，或是太过正经而与人结怨，也会给人不知变通的感觉。
在饮酒聚会上，只有你一个人跟众人的步调不同，常常无法融入现场气氛中。理想高，追求完美，但由于标准只根据自己的经验和所知来设定，所以周遭的人不但感觉不出你的品味，甚至会觉得你自命不凡。太过强调自己的主张的话，会被人看做是偏执狂。

工作：深的信赖的工匠气质
[莎莎]男做事讲求确实、可靠，循序渐进。面对被交付的课题，会从各个方面寻求解答，通常会选择最安全又正确的方法让事情继续推进。有毅力、搜集信息和勤学不怠的态度，想必深得周遭朋友的信赖。程序设计师、事务性工作等，在组织中负责制造、销售等部门内一个人埋头苦干的工作，压力较少，可以说比较适合[莎莎]男。
有时候虽然会固执己见，滔滔不绝地说出一堆道理和知识，而使得他人感到茫然、不知如何是好，但是如果有个处世灵活的上司，就会很有技巧地予以规诫，让他平稳地发挥所长。不适合需要市场转换主意或有个人特色技艺的工作。而必须有服务精神和耐性等接待顾客的行业，劝你最好死了这条心吧。

金钱：重视说明书的实事求是派
基本上，[莎莎]男是不会拿钱来冒险、稳健踏实的人。由于对获得暴利之类的事不感兴趣，属于顺其自然积累财富的类型。
买便宜货是因为“没什么讲究的”；奢侈的时候则说因为“质量好”、“喜欢收藏”等，总是会赋予金钱一个意义，自己先在心里仔细考虑之后再消费。有所坚持时，会透过网络或型号，详细研究产品说明说、消费评价等，或是仔细询问店员；购买之后，再将这些知识告诉周遭朋友。也因为这样，一旦热衷于某种嗜好、收藏或风俗等的时候，很可能就大笔大笔地砸下金钱。看似冷静，又似乎容易受巧妙设计的骗术所吸引上当。不合常理的借贷，少碰为妙！此类型的人，不适合赌博。

恋爱：在理想与现实的夹缝中求生存
由于是生性一丝不苟的凡人，会循序渐进地与对方交往。一边参考恋爱指南，还一边认真地研究约会路线或是求爱的方法等。也可以说是个诚恳又可爱的男人吧？与他交往或许少有因紧张感而全身发烫、发抖的体验，但却平凡而安定。
基本上因为个性晚熟，必须花点时间才引燃他的热情。不过，就算是单相思，就算感受不到对方的热情，[莎莎]男也不会用情不专。一旦喜欢上一个人，就不会移情别恋，从一而终。
另一方面，完美主义的[莎莎]男，会在心里描绘出一幅理想女性的图像。老是猜不透女人心被耍得团团转的他，若是无法按照自己所想的与对方交往，便感觉压力愈来愈大。而渐渐觉得这种自己无法掌握、活生生的女人很麻烦，也可能不知不觉地就沉迷于“虚拟的女性”……由于是个固执己见的人，应该比较适合顺从的女人吧。
对于性，欲望强烈，很重视如何增加快感的方法。顺利的话，就自信满满；若是对方无法配合，大多就借由喜欢的影像或图片自己解决。
作为结婚对象，[莎莎]男可以说是实在、让人放心的伴侣。

2010-04-26T23:10:00.004+08:00
11:14pm

my colleagues.. taken during our work safely course.. haha!! look so funny with the PPE!! haha..

saw this @ Orchard Central toilet.. so cool!! i mean, now mummies no longer need to worry when they're outside and need to use toilet while their toddlers are around.. it will be great convenience to mummies!!

one fine day, me and dear decided to go in JB to have seafood.. he went with his friends b4 and keep telling me very nice lar blah blah blah..

it was the most sinful dinner i ever had.. it's all DEEP FRIED! BUTTER! sad to say, i LOVE deep fried stuffs.. that's y i got this kinda size lar har.. lols..
sambal kangkong ok.. can eat lar.. nothing to shout abt..

the salted egg crayfish is fresh.. but i didnt had enough of the salted egg!! =((( doesnt really satisfy my craving for salted egg dishes.. still, it's worth to go for it..

the cereal prawns just forget abt it.. it's crispy but it doesnt really taste buttery.. it's not fragrance enuff.. next time shall try the salted egg prawns!!

the butter calamari is a MUST!! i simply love it!!

everything sum up to 75 ringgit plus minus only!! shared by both of us only btw..=p but i can tell u it is able to feed 4-6 persons lar.. lols.. so cheap and delicious lor!! already planned for another seafood trip with joanna and krissy!! really looking forward to it!! =x

- it's EAT! EAT! EAT! and being FAT! FAT! FAT! -

2010-04-14T22:56:00.002+08:00
11:13pm

a night without dear.. he is out working..=( seems so weird without him by my side eh.. so used to him lately.. basically with him 24hrs a day other than working not with him nia.. lols..

tat day went to watch "a single man".. freaking lame shit!! it was a gay movie.. alamak!! when we saw 2 men kissing in the movie, we was like.. omfg!! den i read e review again.. we nv read properly.. the partner name call, "jim".. it's already so obvious it's a guy liaos.. but really nv expect it to be a gay movie mahs.. anw, damn "gerly" lar.. waste our $$ definitely!! dunno whr the 5 stars came from!! do not download "FLICKTOUCH" for iphone apps!! give wrong info!! hmphs!! LOL!!

can anyone explain to me why issit that my dark circles became worse when i already slp even more early den before???

saw my ex-colleague, laipeng ytd at mrt station!! so happy to see her.. we both chatted so much.. we even exchanged numbers.. avm has so much memories.. there are unhappy ones.. also happy ones.. its been 3 months.. i wanna move on and stop being so attached to avm!!

- work is getting lamer n lamer -

2010-04-06T21:32:00.004+08:00
9:43pm

i finally had crab after so many days of laming~ lols!! dear say ive been a good girl.. so it's his treat!! he gave me a surprise while we were on the way home.. as usual, i fall aslp in the car.. and when i open my eyes.. TADAH!! hehe..

super shiok can!! just 1 crab.. but it is enuff to fill both of our bigbig tummy!! LOL!! den we also ordered salted egg yolk prawns!! super nice!! very buttery~ im missing it alr~~

it's abit inconvenient though.. very hard to find parking.. so have to pay $4 for the valet parking!! the food there are not expensive!! the usual zi-char price range.. very worth!! the crab that we had was quite BIG.. both the crab and prawns cost $69~ the prawns only $15!! so it's e crab that is exp i feel..=x they have another outlet near bedok 85~!!

seriously, tell me how not to gain weight?!

- yummilicious delicious! -

2010-04-06T08:36:00.001+08:00
1:18pm

it was a well spent long weekend!! i am both heartache but also glad that they both enjoyed their weekends too!! both were super tired.. jabez had yet to wake up when we left the house.. (as usual lar!) shyanne was so tired.. she sat down on the bed with her head lowered down and fall aslp!! so ke lian rite!! but cute at e same time..=x

02.04.10

went Wild Wild Wet with yun&bf.. we didnt get to enjoy the slides etc.. but both me and dear had our fun at the kids' playground with our prince & princess!! haha.. for e first time, we played the slides with them!! shyanne even came down by herself.. and..... i went WWW so many times but tat was the first time i found out abt the wave!! *alamak* love the lazy pool.. shyanne so gey kiang.. keep want to float while holding our hands!! jabez on the other hand so shiok.. lie down on the float by himself while daddy pushed him~

both of them fell aslp while on the way to jurong.. had to go jurong as it's our dearest nana aka Edwina's birthday!! had a great time catching up with them as usuals.. i love to meet up with my sec sch mates.. like yvette and zach also.. bcos tat's when i am at my usual self.. the super kpkb charbor.. hehe..

brought the kids home.. settle them and we head to Downtown East AGAIN!! for "Clash with the Titans" with krissy&hubby!! the 12 plus midnite slot was all taken up by the time we reached.. we waited till 2.20am slot!! wah pengs.. luckily gt ppl chat with.. lol!! super tired still.. heng heng the movie not boring.. pretty interesting.. bring back lotsa pri sch memories like medusa.. HAHAHA!! i like it very much lar~ by the time we reach hm, we were both shagged out lar..

03.04.10

woke up prepare the kids and bring them over to Changi Beach Club as mil is over there for "vacation".. we left for sch.. before that had nasi lemak at Changi.. and saw SLII muffins!! my favorite lar.. i love their cheese tarts too~!! =)

after sch, went back and fetch e kids to Giant.. bought the food, go back hm get clothes den to mum's place~ super rush lar.. by then was already 9 plus liaos.. super famished also!! lols.. was thinking go drinking or movies with them.. end up all the plans cancelled~~ all slp early!! hehe.. but still.. the kids woke up at 10-11am.. lols..

04.04.10

second round of steamboat again.. aftermath, went Tiong Bahru Plaza for "How to train a Dragon"!! thankfully, the kids were very well behaved.. they finished the whole movie!! without the help of popcorns hor!! they eat alittle in the beginning den i stopped them totally.. *phew.. the movie must be not bad rite?? lols.. im not a cartoon person.. but it did managed to kept me entertained..=) btw, nxt time must get tickets for jabez liaos.. he's getting bigger.. with him sitting on our lap makes the space so squeezy..=p

jabez is beginning to fall in love with my mum's place.. which is a good thing.. he doesnt even want to go home ytd nite!! usually, he dun even want to go my mum's place and tell us he dun like my mum.. cos my mum's place no air-con!! den he will complain.. say he dont want go cos no air-con!! *alamak*!! but this time round.. it's total opposite lor!! haha..

i am sooooo looking forward to weekends!!

- I MISS MY KIDS!! -

2010-03-27T02:06:00.004+08:00
2:06am

just came back from dinner and kbox session with shir and yiingyng.. it feels great!! i definitely had alot of fun with them.. i really really miss working with them even though the working environment sucks to the max.. im starting to like my new company more.. came to know lotsa benefits for staffs.. they really treat staffs veryvery good.. as for colleagues, still trying to build relationships.. at least now not so often eat alone.. haha!! still will chat, joke and sometimes gossip..=x i hope i am able to find very close colleagues like what i had in avm.. still, avm has lotsa memories..=)

both my prince and princess are growing alot.. my prince loves to whine and cry in the morning.. which i really really hate it!! i had no idea why he does that!! sometimes i do understand that he doesnt have enuff slp.. other times, i think it has become his habit.. HOWEVER, i am suspecting it's e maid doing.. anyway, he is now addicted to my iphone.. lols.. he watch his thomas e train via youtube.. play his games.. loves to ask me play r&b songs so he can dance.. lols.. while my princess.. she basically just learn everything from korkor.. wad korkor do, she follow.. ppl is saying she looks more n more like me.. but everyone ask me why she so cute not same like me!! ma de!! (actually i also very cute lar.. u all dunno nia!! ask my hubby!! LOL!!)

relationship between me and dear i feel is improving.. except certain times.. when we got reminded on some unhappy issues.. but both of us are still trying to forget..

it seems like we might get our flat in the mid or end 2011.. drewing nearer and nearer in getting our flat.. i hope by then got money to do the reno and everything.. *sighs.. everything is abt $$!!

- money! money money! -

2010-03-17T16:23:00.001+08:00
12:15pm

busy with my daily life.. been so long since i use computer at home!! like for a week?? i think my fishes in fishville die liaos.. LOL!! just moved house.. just some streets down.. still at sengkang.. but nearer to jabez's childcare.. since it's at the 9th floor, the house is so much cooler.. shyanne has stopped using yaolan.. requested by mil.. since their flooring is parquet.. will spoil the floor.. haha..

need to get sooo many things.. i need new clothes.. since im getting FATTER and FATTER.. i need new suits.. i need to topup my makeup.. i need to buy new skincare.. cos with the use of makeup, really gotta start taking care of my skin.. shucks lar.. stupid makeup!! sooooo broke.. where to get all the money??

finally, i need boozes.. lately craving to drink.. craving to see my ex-colleagues.. craving to have a mini gathering with the mummies~~

btw, abt the whole saga regarding jack neo.. what's the big hoo-ha lar.. so he got many flings.. the singapore tiger woods.. den?? if he is just like any other normal man.. will u even care about it?? there are so many men out there who is no difference from jack neo and tiger woods.. so what's the big deal?? but to resort bringing his wife for e conference is really.. *shakes head* i admire the wife's encouragement.. she must have really loved him alot..

im seeing digit-6 on the weighing machine again.. *screams* i dun wanna go back to my old self.. REALLY!!

- super lost -

2010-03-06T13:21:00.010+08:00
1:30pm

i first tried Ellenborough Market Cafe was during my orientation.. we had lunch then.. i super dig the pandan roll inside w shredded coconut.. it was so different to the ones i bought @ bangawan solo to satisfy my cravings.. it is just different! haha.. so one fine day, dear came to fetch me frm work and we decided to go EMC for dinner again! i thought why not since i got staff price and if dun have, can use the discount by Feed At Raffles.. end up.. both also canot use ar!! staff must make reservation first.. and dunno when.. F.A.R seems to change the privileges.. UOB also dun haf!! they say cos it's a thursday!! hmm... and they say only entitle for lunch!! =(( but ok lar.. it's nice!! dinner is @ $36++..

the impression i have for EMC is they serve peranakan food.. which in other words, mostly local food.. so i have never ever thought of visiting EMC.. except the well-known durian paste!! but den.. i was wrong!!

at the salad counter.. trying to mix the caesar salad!! it's a cool idea.. since we could input the amt of cheese, vege, dressings etc according to our liking!! and bcos we can mix ourselves.. it seems fun for me!! LOL!! fall in love w e salad!! im still craving for it.. we had 2 rounds of it ok!!

sharkfin was ok.. although they only give 1 small pc of sharksfin.. but how much u paying for leh? somemore got marinated abalone.. although i dun really like e marinated abalone.. haha!! but the price u're paying for.. it's very good liao..

everything in this plate are my fav!! the salmon is fresh.. i super love the fried rolls.. e yam rolls.. e grill fish with e cheesy sauce!! yummy!!

the prawns are not very fresh.. not tangy.. but the crab has lotsa meat!!

baby lobster is no good.. the meat already "lan" liaos..=(

kueh pie ti!! this is a MUST MUST TRY!! very crispy.. i had like 4 of it!! this is super yummilicious and i swear u couldnt find it in any other buffets!! of cos other den peranakan buffets la.. im talking abt hotel buffet spreads k!! hehehehe..

a waste that i didnt take pics of the 九层糕 and durian paste.. e highlights!! durian paste must try!! cos it is cold, very smooth.. e sweetness is just right.. i think EMC buffet spread is veryvery suitable for more mature age group.. like my mother..=x my mil also loves e spread there.. shall bring my mama go one day!! =) dear on the other hand say he will not go there again..=(

anyway, overdue pics.. had a haircut somewhere in feb.. not a drastic haircut.. just the fringe bahs.. but jason die die want make temp perm for me.. although i was already rushing for time!! like my temp perm but too bad.. it's temp!!

look at how fat i am now.. my face is so round.. *sighs..

we caught "Alice in Wonderland" @ 2.05pm with krissy and benjamin at Downtown East..

dear was totally bored with the movie.. while i am totally engross in it.. haha!! i LOVE movies with lotsa magical effects.. i love fairytales.. hehe.. so i super like this movie!! but dear think this movie kan bo liao.. wahahaha..

tml need to go back work.. we have wedding showcase!! hear them talk abt it makes me wanna get married again!! it had been my dream to hold my wedding @ fullerton.. but it will nv happen..=(((

monday is me and dear's 4th year anniversary!! we're going BATAM for a short getaway.. rather, to buy all e cheap cheap necessities back to SG lar.. we're poor ppl you see!! we're aunties and uncles generation liao mahs.. haha!! i hope we will have good "harvest" this time!! the last time we went BATAM was to celebrate my 18th birthday.. dear wanted to give me a surprise but he didnt plan it very well.. duhs!!

- everyday is so tiring.. -

2010-03-04T23:34:00.005+08:00
11:39pm

taken on 19.02.10.. CNY dinner with yvette and zach @ Kia Hiang!! lol.. it's quite a rundown classic chinese restaurant.. it's a restaurant which my family visit like almost every wednesday.. cos when i was young.. my uncles off on wed.. so they will bring us there.. hehe!! going back there brings back all my childhood memories!! at tat time, i super love their food la.. but this time round...... i wouldnt say it sucks.. since it was quite cheap.. there are certain food that it's a MUST try while there are some which really can forget abt it.. we ordered,

this beancurd with dried scallop is a MUST TRY!! it tasted kinda like hotplate tofu kind.. very tender.. like melt in ur mouth!! haha.. dun like e scallop though.. cos really very DRYYYYY.. lols..

- beijing duck (this duck was shared by 10+ ppl on the nxt table.. but we shared it among 3 of us!! LOL!! i was super craving for it.. thank god yvette support my idea, i finally got it satisfy!! muahahaha.. it tasted not bad!! the duck meat that was cooked using another method was yummilicious!! love the duck meat.. cheap and nice..

this is just chilli crabmeat sauce with fried buns.. not real crabs!! lols.. the sauce taste bad!! but the fried buns really fried.. quite crispy.. i ordered another plate of man tou!! lols.. well, they expected it.. im a bread lover!! hehe.. quite the buns, this dish tasted ok.. makes me want to eat more.. solely bcos of the bread!! so if you're not a bread lover.. pls dun order this lar.. waste of $$..

cereal prawns.. the cereal was not well fried.. the texture was just like cereal with oil.. not crispy.. soft.. and tasted really like cereal.. fail!!

forget abt this eefu noodles.. the worst i had in my life!! too soft..

after dinner, we went Robertson Quay, Chamber for drinks!! tat day went Robertson Quay with dear for his work thingy.. pass by Chamber and like the ambience.. i told dear i want go with yvette and zach!! so we did that day after a longggggg thought!! lols.. but end up it's a disappointment!! the drinks are not nice!! *eeEEeekks.. our drinks tasted like plain water.. cant taste e alcohol at all!! =( aftermath, home sweet home~!!

was at bishan junction 8 supermarket "shopping" when this caught my attention!! KIT KAT in MILK TEA flavor!! i saw the price.. was heartache.. but it is milk tea!! how could i resist the temptation?! LOL!! i tried and it was nice!! dear doesnt like it.. he say too sweet.. but i like!! got milk tea taste!! hehehehe..

shall blog about the food i had at Ellenborough Market Cafe soon..

lately keep EATING and EATING and EATING non-stop!! i really gotta stop.. i really very depressed.. soon to be going back to old times weight.. really very scary.. i dun wan go back to last time!! all my clothes getting so tight.. hais.. go out also dunno wad to wear!! i want visit dr john soon lar!!!!!!!

- sinking into depression -

2010-02-23T00:15:00.003+08:00
12:15am

i realise when you started to take things seriously.. 24hrs a day is simply not enough!!

i am trying hard in my new working environment.. very disappointed with myself.. i forgot to lock my director's room yet again! WTH! i was rushing to go for course and simply forgot abt it.. STUPID ME! working pace is pretty slow.. as compared to AVM.. i think cos it's more systematic here.. whereby everyone is given certain jobscope.. not like AVM.. everything totally "bao ga liao" from start to end.. it makes me feel very relac.. very lazy.. lols.. dun really like it though.. although everyday got things to do.. but they're soooooo i dunno.. bo liao?? maybe me still new.. so yet to meet guests yet.. hope that i can be more familiar with here and start to meet guests!! that is the fun part which i anticipate!!

must start working out a timetable.. so many things i need to do.. must work out studying time.. trying to "force" myself to "exercise" as a family twice a week at least.. hope to cultivate this kinda habit for my kids.. i am a lazy person myself.. but i hope my kids are healthy!! den again, yet to be started.. LOL!! always talk but no action huh!! LOL!! must start saving up.. flat coming.. saw the buildings are up already.. although HDB estimated end 2012.. but shld be able to get by mid 2011?? hopefully.. anw, come alr also dunno will move in anot.. shall see how it goes bahs..

im turning 23 this year.. but really, what had i accomplished?? feel sucha failure..

anw, thanks to alvin's recommendation.. we had DOMINO'S PIZZA today!! it was yummilicious!! the crust beats PIZZA HUT hands down!! try them!! visit them @ http://www.dominos.com.sg/ it's nice lor!! especially the bread stix.. the top part of e bread is actually cheese and onion flavored powder.. with lotsa butter.. but have to warn u that it's super duper sinful!! no pics cos im too hungry liao.. lol!! and best part is they're having promotion now!!

need to finish my assignment.. but i am too tired to even start on it!! =(

- i want CNY to last longer!! -

2010-02-19T02:17:00.003+08:00
2:17am

the suaku me had YA KUN KAYA TOAST for breakfast this morning for e first time.. and that will be the last time! it sucks big time! worse than the normal kopitiam.. it's so sweet.. and e butter doesnt taste "buttery" enuff!! bad! bad! bad!

- say NO! to YA KUN! -

2010-02-05T21:17:00.003+08:00
9:18pm

we went Sengkang CC there to get my clothes altered.. den we saw this beijing education centre or smth lidat.. all are from China.. teaching Chinese basically.. from hanyu pinyin.. to acting classes etc.. so dear and jabez had this short but super duper funny conversation.. LOL!!

Daddy: 你要学讲华语不然以后你会吃亏！你懂我在讲什么吗？
(translation: you must learn how to speak Chinese or you will lose out in future! do you understand what im talking abt??)
Jabez: 懂！你在讲华语。。
(translation: understand! u talking chinese lor!)

WAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!

- LOL!! -

2010-02-03T22:44:00.004+08:00
10:45pm

DAMN!! why didnt i read it earlier?? got this email from yvette.. super nice of her that she came across this article and quickly email me straightafter.. but ive been busy with my stuffs.. i didnt read the email till today..

"Don't let your baby swim

NEW YORK (Reuters Health) - Children who start swimming before the age of 2 may be at increased risk of a common infant lung infection, and possibly asthma and respiratory allergies later in life, a new study suggests.

The findings, reported in the European Respiratory Journal, add to evidence that exposure to chlorinated pools may affect children's respiratory health -- particularly if they have a family history of asthma or respiratory allergies like hay fever.

Experts have suspected that the air quality around pools, particularly indoor ones, is to blame. When the chlorine used to disinfect pools combines with swimmers' sweat, saliva or urine, irritating chlorine byproducts are formed, and over time these chemicals may damage the airways.

In the new study, Belgian researchers found that infant swimming -- whether in indoor or outdoor pools -- was linked to a heightened risk of bronchiolitis.

Bronchiolitis is an infection of the lungs' small airways, usually caused by the respiratory syncytial virus, that is common in infants.

In this study, infant swimmers who developed the infection were also at increased risk of developing asthma or respiratory allergies by kindergarten.

"This suggests that chlorinated pool attendance can increase the risk of asthma and respiratory allergies by making the airways more sensitive not only to allergens but also to infectious agents," senior researcher Dr. Alfred Bernard, of Catholic University Louvain in Brussels, told Reuters Health in an email.

He did not advise parents to keep their young children away from pools, since it is an "enjoyable" way for kids to be active.

"Parents should, however, not lose sight that chlorine-based disinfectants and their derivatives are strong irritants not only for the skin but also the airways," Bernard added.

He said that parents should be sure not to over chlorinate their home pools and to try to avoid public pools that are heavily chlorinated. Some clues to the latter, according to Bernard, include an overwhelming chlorine smell, and eye, skin and throat irritation in pool users.

Where possible, the researcher said, parents can also opt for public pools that use alternative disinfecting methods, like ozone treatment -- which has long been used in Europe and is becoming more common in the U.S.

For their study, Bernard and his colleagues assessed 430 Belgian kindergarteners and surveyed parents on their children's health history, swimming habits and other factors.

They found that of children exposed to chlorinated indoor or outdoor pools before age 2, 36 percent had a history of bronchiolitis, compared with 24 percent of their peers.

Among children who had used only indoor pools for more than 20 hours before age 2, the risk of bronchiolitis was 3.5-times higher compared with children who had never been to a chlorinated indoor pool at that age. Meanwhile, children who had spent that much time at an outdoor pool showed a two-fold increase in their risk of the lung infection.

Overall, there were no significant differences in the rates of asthma and allergies among infant swimmers and their peers. But when the researchers looked at children with a history of bronchiolitis, only those who had been infant swimmers showed increased risks of asthma and respiratory allergies.

Among infant swimmers who had contracted the infection, 15 percent later developed asthma. That compared with 4 percent of swimmers with no history of bronchiolitis. The figures were nearly the same when it came to hay fever.

It is "very likely," according to the researchers, that airway irritation from chlorine byproducts makes babies more vulnerable to bronchiolitis.

From there, the infection and chronic chlorine exposure appear to "interact" to increase a child's risk of asthma and allergies later on.

SOURCE: European Respiratory Journal, online January 14, 2010. "
(quoted from http://health.asiaone.com/Health/News/Story/A1Story20100127-194703.html)

ive read so many abt swimming is good for babies!! especially for their respiratory system!! now came this article.. both jabez and shyanne LOVES swimming!! how now?! =((

met up with angel, yiingyng and xiaojohn after wrk.. it was a last minute meet up.. called angel and she was out with them.. so we end up meeting.. chatted for very short while.. yy gotta meet up with her pilot.. angel end up meeting her hubby.. so left me and xiao john.. went The Wine Company for dinner and drinks.. as usual, ordered Gewurztraminer Spatlese (Pfalz).. a must drink!!

whn can i meet up w them again?? especially e ladies.. with them, everything are just so lively.. last time feel emo just go work and everything will be ok.. now, new environment.. no frens etc.. wrk also sian.. hais..

- im hoping for a second chance.. -

2010-02-01T23:12:00.002+08:00
11:12pm

started my new job on last wed, 27/01.. it's soooo different from my previous jobs.. the environment, the culture, the ppl etc.. i dunno.. so not me.. even picking up phone calls is so different.. lols.. machiam start from scratch.. nth much for me to do at the moment.. but my blurness is still there.. never leaves me.. hais.. when can i get rid of it?? -,-;; anw, it's a female working environment.. i dun like bcos women loves to yak non-stop.. women loves to GOSSIPS.. ok lar, including mi lar.. so i guess will be quite political lor.. office is so quiet.. not like in AVM.. so noisy.. haha.. with so much laughters when e salesmen are around.. miss those working environment.. so not so formal environment.. lols.. cant even use msn now.. i dun even dare to pick up calls frm my hp.. duhs!! i miss chatting w adel.. i miss chatting w angel.. w my mummies frens.. i kinda regret.. choosing this job.. the more choosy i am.. the more choices i have.. end up more regret.. wtf?! i dun like to wear mei mei go work.. i dun like everyday have to think of wad to wear.. i dun like everyday have to put makeup to work.. i just dun like not being me everyday.. so sucks ler.. but i gotta admit.. it is a good exposure for me.. *sighs* and i like them for being systematic.. shld i quit now or shld i just give myself a few wks more to try?? =(((( 千选万选结果还不是想要的!!!

- everything just sucks! -

2010-01-23T19:51:00.003+08:00
7:51pm

i am veryvery tired now..

afternoon met up with angel @ bugis for shopping! saw so many clothes tat i like.. but im so broke! SHIT! hate end of month.. lols..

after making the kids sleep, went LEBAR around selegie with jimmy&shir, lunnie and leonard.. kenna big big aeroplane by yiingyng and xiaojohn! lols.. didnt drink alot.. but was pretty moody.. hate e songs played.. dunno y.. still prefer MOONBAR..=) been ages since our last visit..

ytd update status @ my FB.. "It is normal for men to eat outside.. But it is a matter of whether he knows how to wipe his mouth after eating or not....." in my perception, as long as i am not aware of it, everything is fine.. 哪个男人不偷吃 (ok, dear reminds me that women nowadays eat outside also.. LOL!) as long as u 偷吃 knows how to wipe your mouth.. certain things are better left to be unsaid..=) but if frens knew abt it or even relatives come and tell me abt it, that i cannot accept.. bcos that would throw my face until dunno where.. worse scenario is.. those who kenna caught liao.. still can insists they never and point the finger back to you!! guys, please.. u can do anything that you like.. just don't get caught.. u can do anything that you like.. but remember, be responsible to your family and wife.. simple as that..

anw, went to "fly kite" with my kids and hubby in the evening.. actually i was just standing there while dear runs around w them lar.. lols.. that was my first time playing kite.. LOL!

- what is the definition of love? -

2010-01-22T09:41:00.005+08:00
9:41am

switch on my msn.. and den i received some entertainment! LOL!

it's oh so true!! and that is probably the reason why the co. had never expanded.. few yrs later, it is still the same small company.. which could never accept the MNC culture.. *shrugs.. i am happy that i left this company.. i did not do alot for the company.. but i feel that ive never owe the shorty anything!! my blurness is something in ME.. and e shorty knew wad kinda person i am all along.. but he still choose me to do his stuffs.. so obviously, i am of some value to him.. anyway, i believe in karma.. wad goes around comes around..=)

i rejected the prev offer.. i noe i cb lar.. i dua them only after 1 week plus later..=( but i receive the call only on thurs!! so ytd i tried.. i was damn nervous.. nearly wanna give up.. cos i keep thinking the chances must be damn low.. thanks to adel's advise.. i decided to go for it.. and they hire me straight on the spot!! yayness!! im not gonna change my mind again.. this time, im sure.. hotel industry.. which ive always wanna get into!! although pay wise is not attractive.. but it is an industry ive always wanted!! through this period of time im looking for jobs.. i really gain lotsa confidence in myself..=)

been into thai songs lately.. i love thai songs.. only the slow and sentimental ones though!! very touching.. although i dunno e meaning!! muahahaha..

after going for interview.. while waiting for angel they all for lunch!

the boring me tried using hello kitty cam application.. hate the frame! *arghs*

- i want a better life -

2010-01-19T17:02:00.011+08:00
5:02pm

just started watching 下一站, 幸福! i used to dislike Vaness.. but he look so MAN in this drama! haha.. need to use this drama to "quench my thirst" for 海派甜心!! another long wait!! it's so tormenting!! lols..

ive been nua-ing for 1 week plus.. need to nua another week.. starting wrk only on next mon.. i rather work.. at least it occupies my time.. at least it wont make me think so much.. i love taiwan dramas.. its always so fairytales.. so unrealistic.. so romantic, so sweet.. we will never find it in real life.. haha!!

lastly, following are the overdue pics taken on xmas eve!

- i really dunno wad to do man.. -

2010-01-17T16:08:00.004+08:00
4:53pm

farewell dinner with my ex-colleagues @ Link Hotel - Akira Japanese Restaurant on 15/01/2010!! gossiped and chatted so much..

varieties not much but their food are yummilicious!! salmon sashimi is thick and fresh.. xiao john and leonard totally dig the beef teppanyaki and the "ginger" provided.. they had sooo many plates of it.. lols.. for me, i love their sushi rolls.. very nice!! im a sushi lover!!

den we went over to The Wine Company at Evan Lodge.. nice place.. but i prefer the one at Dempsey.. hope to meet up with them soon.. im so gonna miss them!!

joanna just came over and pass me this..

clothes from "Mini Princess"!! i super duper love the clothes and accessories from that shop!! as per their shop name.. all the stuffs that they're selling are all sooooo princessy!! i still cannot forget the lacey umbrella for baby girls!! lol.. thank you joanna!! *muacks!! haha..

wanna share a good news with all.. im starting a new job tomorrow!! prospects good or nt, not sure.. but definitely much better pay!! lols.. and that also means, im moving back to sengkang!! double yayness!! can now share more time with my kids!! =)

- everything's going for a better turn -

2010-01-12T21:14:00.004+08:00
9:14pm

something really makes me damn upset yesterday.. i am dumbfounded.. i am naive and stupid.. but there is someone being more stupid than me.. i feel for her.. that the person had all along used her as a tool.. i really really feel for her.. and she could keep on feeling that the person will never lie to her etcetc.. but certain things is better left to be unsaid isnt it?

ive cleared 海派甜心 all 11 episode in 2 days time.. now awaiting for episode 12.. cant wait!! show luo is simple duper handsome lar!! *drools.. super duper cute when doing that idiotic face also!! and the show is damn touching.. makes me feel like crying too whenever rainie cried for da lang~

will 2010 be a good year for me? i really hope so.. it started veryvery bad.. will it take a better turn? just as i needed a shoulder to cry on.. hubby was on reservice for 18 days!! and today was just day 2.. *shucks!!

i will be stronger from now on.. buddha helped me on taking the first step already.. thank you!!

- memories.. -

2010-01-05T23:49:00.003+08:00
12:26am

been kinda busy lately.. busy going out and spending time with my kids!! shyanne started school today!! heard from mil.. she seems to enjoy school veryvery much!! and is adapting very well.. even first day of school already can stay @ CC alone for a short period of time!! hope she really can adapt after the 3 days.. lols..

i need to make some new year resolution for 2010!!

1st.. BE STRONG!! not to drop tears so easily anymore!! do not want people to see me as a weak person anymore..

2nd.. CHANGE JOB!! with better pay and prospects!!

3rd.. get my diploma cert!!

4th.. DO WHATEVER I WANT IN LIFE!! no more procrastination!! i want to be like yvette.. to live her life to the fullest.. as she and zach says.. im sucha procrastinator.. i have to change!! im getting old already!!

5th.. clear all my debts!! my creditor is none other than my hubby!! i want to clear everything that i owe him.. I AM the reason he is poor!! WAHAHAHAHAHA..

6th.. lose weight on my own will!! although i predict.. i am visiting dr john sometime this week VERY SOON!! =p

im not greedy.. i only have 6 on my list.. these 6 is hard enuff for me to accomplish..=x may buddha gives me all the will and strength to accomplish these "missions"!!

- a new year, a new beginning of my life.. -

2009-12-28T22:50:00.006+08:00
10:50pm

HAPPY BELATED MERRY XMAS TO ALL!! so many pics but they're not with me!! shall upload them soon..

24.12.09

mil prepared xmas dinner!! there were sooo many food.. invited joanna&family and krissy&family over.. we had a hearty xmas dinner!! aftermath, bring the kids downstairs to play some fire sticks.. i dunno wad's tat called lar.. lol!! im sure they enjoyed themselves!! den it's gift xchange!! we bought some gifts for all the kids.. me and sam got gifts frm mil too!! i received a hair dryer!! haha..

25.12.09

meet up with krissy and daisy @ bedok interchange.. bought foods and went over to krissy's place! joanna&family came aftermath.. we had steamboat!!

it's been soooo long since we had steamboat together!! it was nice to see daisy after so long lo.. like finally!! hehe..

left early.. went dragonfly to meet dear's colleagues.. they were all nice and fun peeps!!

they had gift exchange.. dear was supposed to get gift for slyvester.. they really gay partner.. slyvester guessed correctly the gift tat he got for him w/o opening the gift and can tell he really likes it alot!! dear got him TRD headrest and logo for the grill.. lol.. dear also got a car accessories from his colleague, james.. thanks to slyvester's recommendation also.. they both really think alike!! both thought of car accessories for each other.. alamak!! anw, it was fun hanging out with them.. dear was super high lor.. acting damn idiotic!! LOL!!

26.12.09

it was paktor time for me and dear.. we caught AVATAR @ amk hub..

it is very worth watching!! quite touching.. quite draggy at the beginning.. but ending was good.. really must watch!!

27.12.09

went over Westmall to get my IPHONE!!

i was deciding between n97mini and IPHONE.. but after trying the demo set of n97mini.. i decided to take IPHONE.. dear was using n97mini until pek cek.. it was not as user friendly as IPHONE.. and the more i look @ it.. the more it doesnt looks nice..=x i manage to get the IPHONE with a mere topup of $98!! *w0otz* i didnt get their iflexi plan.. remain my old plan.. and get the data plan instead.. find it cheaper this way.. since i need the outgoing calls.. im a super duper lazy person la.. i only use my hp to call in and out.. even if im @ home..=p there were soooo many apps.. it really acts like a mini laptop.. although there were soooo many functions.. but it is freaking easy and simple to use.. very straightforward.. never regretted getting this phone!!

.today.

went gym with ting after wrk.. but damn.. ended up with prawn noodles and CHA KWAY TEOW (shared by me, ting and dear) for dinner-cum-supper @ boon lay market.. WTF?! LOL!! super fattening!! im so so so sad!! my clothes all getting tighter.. my face is so round..=((

- i miss those days.. -

2009-12-24T00:44:00.003+08:00
12:44am

i really gotta admit.. im a CRYBABY! i cry at every single little things.. it's antagonizing!! im so big already still cry at the smallest thing.. it's super paiseh!! guess i really cannot handle stress.. i broke down yet again due to work.. i really cannot take it.. this fucking company really not a place for normal ppl.. it's for the stronger ones.. really can die.. the workload is crazy.. and there's no system.. i hope they terminate me.. and compensate me a month's salary.. i really cant wait!!!!!

- i am so tired -

2009-12-14T00:40:00.003+08:00
12:44am

was working @ suntec distributing flyers for starhub over the weekend! LOL! earn some extra cash mahs.. im so so so so broke! anw, met some lovely ladies.. most of the people there are younger or around the same age as me la.. i am considered the more older ones liao!! *ahem*!!

me while waiting for dear..

one of my "partner", janice.. we were together most of the time lar.. she reminds me of vanessa..=(((

finally, last day of work! me, daphne and shihui!

it's a super duper tiring weekend.. but a fruitful one.. cos got $$ for this mth liao!! hahaha..

- *smile.. -

2009-12-08T22:14:00.003+08:00
10:14pm

i thought i was coping well.. obviously, im not..=( it's just so hard..

we had a new sales coordinator.. she said something kinda funny.. she ask angel im sick issit.. why do i look so pale.. (what the..) why i always look so tired.. (diaos!!) *pengs* BTH!! and derrick today ask me my eyes always so blurblur one issit.. why am i always looking so blur!! WHAT THE FUCK?! but fact is, im a blur queen lar.. haha!!

jabez had already went back to school!! he had finally recovered!! thanks to mil and her helper, hazel!! they took well care of him..=) anw, he was quite well behaved most of the time.. at least the times when im with him.. he still chat ALOT! ALOT! lols.. i had a great time bonding with meimei last week from tues to thurs!! i took unpaid leave and look after her at home.. she's sooooo sweet!! during those days, dear came over to acc me.. everyday before he go for work, we will go for breakfast with meimei.. i like this kinda life..=) btw, both meimei and korkor gave me a great laugh with their actions!

cant rem which day.. we went to had breakfast as usual.. took lift.. and meimei was so happy that she's going out.. she said "hello!" to an uncle when the lift open!! her reaction is very funny.. like she noe the uncle very well lidat lor!!

den on sunday.. both me and dear was still soundly asleep.. no 1 was @ home at that time.. mil they all went to church.. jabez's diapers became loose.. he went up to mil's new tenant and told him, "uncle, my mummy and daddy sleeping.. my diapers drop already.. how?" LOL!! so the nice tenant help him tighten his diaper!! LOL!! really ROFL!!

those days spent with them really precious.. makes me wanna be stay at home mum again!! haha!!

LOVES! LOVES! -

2009-12-05T02:55:00.003+08:00
3:09am

some random post with pictures of my prince and princess!!

2009-12-01T13:16:00.007+08:00
2:41pm

bad bad news.. my left eye had been twitching lately.. i thought bad things already happened.. but the worst had yet to come.. yesterday got a call from dear that jabez kenna HFMD..=(( went back sengkang to visit him.. as well as stayed over cos meimei is coming over to stay with me for a week or so until jabez recover.. i was considering whether meimei and jabez come over.. i ask dear to decide instead.. bcos i couldnt make up the decision.. i wanted to take care of jabez by myself.. i want to be there for him when he is sick.. but jabez doesnt like here.. he will not feel as comfortable as he is at sengkang.. it would be a better environment den my place.. so i ask dear to make the decision instead.. and we also ask jabez where.. at first he said follow me.. den when he finally got clear of where he will be going, he ask me to stay put at sengkang look after him..-,-;;

when i went sengkang last nite.. jabez really make me teared.. he is sucha sweetheart.. he said he loved and missed me.. and "muacks" me so many times cos mil ask him not to kiss us.. only can "muack".. haha! so cute rite! =) he is a darling.. and when meimei saw me this morning.. she wants to follow me!! im feeling ultra super duper guilty.. i am blessed with cute and lovely kids who love their mummy so much.. much more than their mummy love them..=((

anyway, talking abt kids remind me of my mummy friends!! i miss u all!! and i would like to recommend a hongkong cafe to everyone reading!! bcos i find it goddamn super worth it.. i was praising it non-stop.. the taste of the food, the quantity, the price, the service.. basically EVERYTHING!! anyway, i thought of mummy krissy immediately lar.. LOL!! cos she's number1 fan of HK CAFES! there are so many hkcafes in SG.. but nowadays, all of the standard really drop tremendously.. super lousy!! but this one must visit!!

there are alot of different types of milk tea.. so many till i dunno wad to choose! i chose the most basic one.. "stocking" milk tea.. it tasted differently nice.. at least it doesnt taste like the "TEH KAH DAI" we had at kopitiam!! muahahaha.. yiingyng had the royal milk tea.. quite creamy.. another love!!

they only had one type of french toast.. but it's filled w peanut.. but they are filled even at the sides of the toast.. so evenly filled.. the toast also another must eat!!

the noodles that i had.. cant rem what issit called.. but they got a "chaotah" smell which i like!! all in all, i am really very pleased with the food!! =)

WONG KOK CHAR CHAN TENG @ BUGIS JUNCTION!

btw, i feel so paiseh!! i need a malaysian to tell me that the C.NAI CAFE at ECP got ppl singing songs one!! sibei malu!! =x

this durian fondue which i had with yvette on sunday @ Jurong Point is soooooo not nice!!!!!!!

- i had already woke up! -

2009-11-27T10:58:00.000+08:00
徐佳瑩 - 身騎白馬

2009-11-27T10:06:00.004+08:00
10:06am

i hate to sleep early.. bcos that would means waking up early.. i am so early today i had no idea what to do.. actually i should start studying.. but it's so early.. i dun feel like doing so..=p facebook is also getting boring for me.. what can i do now ley??

zach went newyork and he came back with these for both me and yvette!! THANKYOU :)

- boring boring day! -

2009-11-25T22:49:00.005+08:00
10:50pm

today is a very sad day for me and my colleagues.. our sales&marketing manager, mary is leaving us.. we had early celebration for her today.. her last day was tomorrow.. but guess tomorrow most of them not free bahs..

anw, i believe she had really left a veryvery deep impression in all our hearts.. everyone loves her.. she has been really nice and taking great care of us.. we had farewell lunch with her this afternoon.. chatted alot.. she really understand what we are all going through.. she helps us alot.. she is the one and only manager in the company that makes working not so horrible.. i appreciate all the help i got from her.. i thank her for offering me this job as she was the one who interview-ed me! =)

after she left, i guess this co. is an EVEN WORSE company than ever.. no more thoughts for staying after CNY.. NO MORE!! i believe more of them will leave soon too.. *sighs* i love my colleagues.. it's really the management..=((

anyway, following are the pictures we took! we, edu dept got her a precious thoughts crystal globe.. chosen by dean! while SMART dept got her a digital photo frame with all our pictures downloaded in! so thoughtful and sweet of them rite!!

francis tong and mary!

our COW (cos he used to have very bad temper!) leonard and her!

the crapster xiao john and her!

jimmy and her!

dean, quite a close fren as well and her!

i love her!

mary and angel, my hand in hand!

yiingyng and her!

the sales coordinators and her!

my irritating salesmen and my beloved angel who gave me lotsa help!!

MARY!! WE WILL ALL LOVES AND MISSES YOU!!

- this is part and parcel of life.. *sighs* -

2009-11-25T01:54:00.003+08:00
1:54am

finally change my blogskin! my current fav song,

林峰 - 愛不疚

收藏在眼眸常徘徊左右爱猜到没有
愉快玩笑後能全然退後你开心就够
这种感觉太亲厚讲一千句也不够
假使讲了你听到後或会走
这种恋爱太罕有不需真正拥有
成全衷心祝福然後就放手
放手放开所有彼此更自由
放手其实我绝非爱得不够
放手豁出所有还有这个好友
已经已经足够
遥远是宇宙静静在背後去看守就够
这种感觉太亲厚讲一千句也不够
即使一刹有过冲动挽你手
这种恋爱太罕有不需真正拥有
成全多舍不得仍然是放手
放手放开所有彼此更自由
放手其实我绝非爱得不够
放手豁出所有还有这个好友
已经已经足够
放手我的牵挂找不到尽头
放手期望你幸福甚麽都有
也许爱很深厚然而我早看得透
放手至可拥有

- it's enough -

2009-11-23T00:27:00.005+08:00
12:27am

i lead a very "fast" november.. november seems to fly so fast.. perhaps it's due to a very super busy month during work.. *sighs.. i guess most of my colleagues are having the same thought as me at the moment.. it's the last straw already.. and worse, the most loved manager is leaving.. shucks.. no more "kao shan"!! =((

getting super old and weak already.. my auntie came.. making me damn shagged out.. *yawns*

been spending lesser and lesser time with my kids.. my wrong.. im feeling guilty.. it is really my kids' misfortune to have me as their mama..

feeling very down and gloomy lately.. i just wanna work and work and work.. i really wants to work 24hrs a day.. i just don't want to think about things.. i am just not satisfied with my life.. with everything.. seriously, NOTHING is wrong.. i mean, it is just ME, myself making myself feeling so terrible.. i am really thinking too much.. being so sensitive is really not good for health..

even though im out, i am not happy.. den how can i be happy??

- it's so simple.. -

2009-11-01T14:33:00.004+08:00
2:34pm

i passed my Principles of Marketing!! i am shocked bcos i really really never thought that i will pass!! i didnt spend much time preparing it.. my assignment was in a mess.. i am really surprised that i passed!! =x quite a no. of ppl failed.. there are also those who passed with A+.. but still, i am super happy that both me and dear passed!! lols..

work sucks.. it sucks more and more.. dun wanna comment much bcos there's SPY here.. wandering around.. kinda disappointed with HER.. bcos she still lives inside her own dream.. i really really had enough.. this is the last straw.. and i regretted for being the biggest fool in the world to drop the prev job offer.. FUCK ME!

ive gained weight!! of cos, dear's the most happiest person liao!! im so FAT!! why am i always FAT?! can all the slim slim girls teach me how to be slim?? i seriously need help!! =(

my new baby! thanks to benjamin's recommendation! =) sry for troubling him though.. im forever indecisive!!

i dun like the sound of this laptop though.. although its dolby certified.. but the max vol. is not max enuff.. and it sounded hollow.. other den that, no comments.. its super light and compact.. which is wad im looking for la.. din noe it's a netbook though.. but it's not laggy jiu hao ler!! dear was more excited than me after getting it.. but i wasnt.. if it is a bag or smth, i will be!! but spending $$ on laptop to me is sooooo heartpain.. sighs.. although laptop is nearly like my life since i have to surf the net once i reach hm!! lol..

but ive yet to surf the internet with it..-,-;; something's wrong with singnet.. couldnt connect although it says excellent connection.. *zzz* they say gotta call the modem vendor for system password blahblahblah.. duhs!

gotta go prepare and meet up with yiingyng!

- it is so hard to describe -

2009-10-20T00:29:00.003+08:00
12:35am

moved over to mum's place @ jln bukit merah.. due to.. it's much more nearer to my workplace.. shorter distance lar.. if i stay @ sengkang.. nobody can fetch me to work.. den have to wake up earlier etc.. but i really hate it here.. i miss my 2 monsters.. i miss my hubby.. i shall try it out for 1 week and see if i can accomodate here.. which is very hard i think.. no air-con!! hais!! ever since i started wrk, i have never ever go to work by myself.. dear always fetch me to work.. after moving to sengkang.. is longbang colleagues car.. now i gotta drag my feet, take public transport wake up early go to work.. DAMN!! the thought of it really turns me off.. SHIT!!! hate this kinda feeling..=( feeling really really pathetic and wu nai now..=(

ECP with yvette and zach was updating session on each other's life.. shyanne was afraid of the sand! she dun dare to touch the sand! lol.. so cute lor!! jabez for god knows wad reason dun dare to go deeper to the sea!! i alr prepare extra clothes for them liao.. end up no need use..-,-;; i nearly lost jabez.. stupid me..

- im having mixed feelings.. -

2009-10-17T11:47:00.003+08:00
11:48am

studying schedule seems to be more packed nowadays.. 1 week might have to attend 3 lessons instead of the usual 2.. exams fall on my very bdae!! duhs.. i am super duper lost on economics.. imagine i only attend the basic econs nia.. already dun understand liao.. i still have core module for this subj.. i wonder how im gonna survive..=( i still havent touch e books!! =x

meeting zach and yvette later @ ECP with my 2 monsters.. lols.. hope it can help to clear my mind temporary.. *sighs..

- shit happens.. this is life! -

2009-10-01T23:47:00.005+08:00
11:58pm

went for BKK trip on 24th sept ~ 27th sept with yvette & zach! it was the most fulfilling trip ever!! bcos both me and yvette has somewhat the same taste for clothes!! in BKK usually have to be 3pcs and above den got their so-called wholesale price mahs.. so we dun haf to like one person buy 3pcs at a shop.. we can share share buy mahs.. unlike my 2 prev trip.. i din buy alot.. bcos e clothes i like.. only me like.. den so often 1 shop only gt like 1-2 clothes i like.. so end up getting so little stuffs.. but this trip i really spent alot.. i change $800 den go over liao still borrow near to $200 frm zach.. lol.. but i had a great time shopping really.. super duper shiok cos i lugged back lotsa lotsa stuffs!!! hehe.. but after taking pics.. like nt alot lehs..=x i really really feel like going back to BKK and shop.. cos i really bu she de to get clothes here liaos.. not even in LJ.. i saw sooooo many LJ clothes in BKK and it's like halved the price.. also, i covered a few new places in BKK.. thanks to yvette and zach.. we really shop whenever we can.. we really reach hotel ard 10plus or near 12mn.. din visit khao san/patpong though.. we seriously dun have enuff time for it.. lols!!

1st day

reach hotel really early.. like 10 plus?? look for my fav wanton mee stall but it's no longer there!! went to platinum mall for breakfast + lunch first.. den shop ard.. we really dun wanna leave the mall but zach was complaining abt his footwear lar!! so we went back to check-in hotel also.. changed, walk around pratunam den to MBK for dinner!! had an early nite.. i didnt catch a wink the prev nite + whole day.. we wanna charge our energy fully for the very nxt day!!

2nd day

woke up early for the morn market.. breakfast.. pratunam den chinatown!! i wanna checkout the hello kitty shop which forum was talking abt!! but both trips i went both cant find!! so this time round, i still went back again.. lol.. cant find again.. BUT! i found out that chinatown is really interesting!! they sell lotsa stuffs.. accessories, nail arts, parties supplies etcetc.. all at wholesale price.. have to get 6pcs n above usually.. especially those who are interested in making handmade necklaces/bracelets etc shld go there and check it out.. it drizzled halfway.. den some ppl was selling the "raincoat"!! we got ourselves one each.. it's kinda new to us lor!! haha.. it was made out of plastic bags material!! haha.. so we still manage to shop despite the rain!! wahahahaha..

dinner @ mbk.. den went back hotel put our stuffs den over to memorial bridge.. another place which i wanna visit but nv been able to.. long stretch of stalls.. one stall selling contact lenses!! but all zero degrees ler..=((

3rd day

we woke up real late! tootsie yvette set alarm wrong date! alamak! woke up only @ 11am!! lol.. missed breakfast!! but it's ok.. we had nice breakfast at chatuchak anyway.. we were super duper full e whole day @ CTC!! cos i just buy n buy n buy food.. i just gotta try them la.. i dun wanna go back w/o trying those foods!! =x mi and yvette went separate ways w zach.. din get alot of things.. t-shirts, a lace dress which i saw frm LJ, biker jacket and cardigan which i saw in LJ too!! CTC stuffs are more exp.. but there're more shops selling differ things and nicer clothes as compared to platinum too.. so i would suggest visit pratunam and platinum before visiting CTC.. tat's wad i always do whenever i shop in BKK..

tuktuk to central world.. NARAYA again.. this time round, i nv spend alot @ NARAYA.. lesson learnt! tat time i buy so many NARAYA bags end up nv use them.. luckily my sis's frens wan them.. she help mi clear!! lols.. only buy them back as gifts.. den got a gladiator sandals just outside central world for 100baht only!! LOL!! cheapo me!! i couldnt get footwear becos those tat i like are exp!! oh ya.. those who love shoes and dun mind paying more.. must visit CTC.. they have veryvery nice shoes.. but for mi, i only go for CHEAP!! so i end up only buy 2 shoes in BKK la..=x

last stop of e day was suan lum.. all prices quoted has to be reduced by 40-50%!! it's a tourist attraction la.. so expected lor.. but i have to say it's a must visit.. their clothes are very fashion lor!! of better quality also.. really much more exp though.. this shld be the last stop of ur itinerary.. i had foot massage there while yvette and zach had fish spa.. lols.. i heard scary stories abt fish spa.. so i skipped it..=x foot massage is useful la.. cos my feet were aching frm long hrs of shopping!! haha!! i got jabez a mini muay thai boxer there and an evening gown which i loved alot.. kinda ex.. with 800baht i can buy alot more things @ BKK.. super heartache.. but i do like it very much.. and was psycho by yvette.. haha!! suan lum also have lotsa hello kitty shops..

dinner @ suan lum was good.. although i had their egg with mincepork and rice.. but ive gotta say.. thailand's egg somehow taste different leh!! i love lor!! LOL!!

day 4

manage to woke up for breakfast.. last round of shopping @ pratunam.. den platinum.. manicure @ mbk.. den back to sg! =)

we were lucky.. their triumph bras were having sales.. so i bought back quite alot of bras.. haha!!

experience lotsa stuffs this trip.. had lotsa local foods.. visit new places.. very contented and satisfied with this trip..=) im missing BKK already!! although im sick of BKK.. but still, shopping @ BKK is the best liao lor!!

too lazy to upload the pics up.. uploaded them in FB alr though.. here they are..

Day 1 http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=149448&id=529521933&l=a9d67abe35

Day 2 http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=149552&id=529521933&l=d5a51384a8

Day 3 http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=149564&id=529521933&l=81cb0a4d7b

Day 4 http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=149577&id=529521933&l=687e782edb

following are my loots! they're just partial.. there're still shoes, accessories, last day's buying.. etcetc.. sorry for the lousy photograph taking skill..

BKK again? *winks @ yvette and zach! =x

- i miss BKK!! -

2009-09-21T06:01:00.002+08:00
6:06am

overdue pics..

FINAL DESTINATION 4!

UP!

princess w helmet! taken by mil..

hiong bohs? haha!

2009-09-21T05:36:00.002+08:00
5:36am

sat was our first exam.. guess gonna flunk! both me and dear learnt our lesson.. no more last min!! no more last min of doing assignments.. no more last min of studying our exams!! the tips tat the lecturer gave was super duper useful!! i read the correct topics.. all came out.. but i only studied for 2-3hrs.. really regret lor!! its nt tat i dun wanna study.. but i really had no time to study.. last 2 weeks was super duper busy week for me.. im totally shagged out by the time i reach home.. thurs only reach hm @ 11pm or so.. due to PURELY WORK! cos friday last day to submit quotes for both dean and derrick's.. den i rush derrick's stuffs till 4am in e morn.. thought to catch a wink.. by the time i wake up 8am liao!! jitao sms derrick i taking half day!! in the end.. he ask me go in ofc @ 10am.. he will inform HR for mi.. but i think the old spinister wasnt very happy abt it.. since i alr kenna marked for lateness liaos!! -,-;; but who cares? bitch!! i OT got pay me extra anot?! DONT HAVE!! late abit nia kpkb!!

stayed till 7pm for derrick's quote.. finally done! a sigh of relief.. can relax liao! me and colleagues went for sukiyaki again!! *drools~ i took ang's car.. and he was saying how stupid and how "empty" i am.. *sighs.. i noe he meant well.. i also canot understand why am i so stupid la.. i was super duper stress those few days tat i suddenly cried out of nowhere.. i really pray hard tat they got it.. but i dun really haf positive feelings with the results.. anw, dinner was great! glad they like the food there! i was raving abt how super duper nice the beef is etcetc.. lols.. they got sooooo tempted!! haha.. but SADLY!!!!! they end e nite super early lar!!! like 10+pm..=( went to find YY at "Talk Cock Sing Song".. den they sua to ARENA.. dear came n fetch me home.. reach hm alr 2+am..

im feeling so lost.. dunno wad i want in life.. dunno wad to do in life.. feeling something is missing.. im getting so bored with life.. how can i spice it up? *shit!

- it's been long since i felt happiness.. -

2009-09-16T22:46:00.002+08:00
10:46pm

in the end, i stayed.. no, i didnt get any pay increment.. i also dunno why the F i stay lar.. anw, im totally shagged out.. 2 big projects in a row.. im super stressed out.. plus my assignments.. exams this sat.. i dunno how im gonna revise sia.. i reach hm almost 11pm lately.. although its not unusual.. but to wrk for such long hrs.. im gonna be maxed out in no time.. and now, i totally totally understand judy's mentally stress when she was handling derrick's project..

- i need to rest! -

2009-08-21T01:43:00.003+08:00
1:43am

i finally took the first step to leave my current company.. it is a very very decision for me as lately i had a bunch of really nice and close colleagues.. *sighs* but i know if i dun leave now, i would yet again stuck here for another couple of months.. when would i ever leave then? i will never improve.. always staying in my comfort zone.. im finally outta here.. a sigh of relief when i finally tender my resignation letter.. thank derrick for helping me all along when all along, i thought he was e evil one trying to play tricks on me and get me to leave.. but i was wrong.. i was blinded all the while.. feeling really guilty towards him.. kinda sad that i couldnt assist him anymore.. though it's a relief but my heart is still with AVM eventually.. *sobs* i was crying n crying when he asked me for a talk.. finally blurt out everything and had all my doubts cleared.. all was a misunderstanding.. if only i did not think so much.. *sighs* y do i think so much? y do i cry so much? had been crying and crying almost everyday.. finally, everything had been put to a stop.. thanks to YY, angel, judy and shir for always being by my side.. im fortunate to have this bunch of crazy babes.. will be starting my new job on 28/09 the very nxt day after i return frm my BKK trip.. i hope everything will be fine..

i will not regret.. i will only look forward..

- finally.. a decision made..=) -

2009-08-14T02:05:00.002+08:00
2:05am

everyone seems so happy.. and im full of envy.. so not satisfied with everything in my life.. except my family.. but ive not been spending time with them.. wallowing in self pity now.. had been super emo lately.. it sucks BIG TIME! i hate the way im feeling now.. TOTALLY!!! im getting out of this pit.. i will.. i definitely have to!! im losing myself......

- im super spastic! -

2009-08-08T11:38:00.001+08:00
11:38am

if this is not sacrificing, so be it! not feeling guilty or any sorts.. u're feeling so unfair, so angry just so becos right now YOU have to do EVERYTHING by yourself.. FUCK YOU!

2009-08-05T00:22:00.011+08:00
12:22am

firstly, i wanna wish my dearest prince Jabez..

HAPPY BELATED 3RD BIRTHDAY! his birthday was on 2nd August.....

and,

HAPPY BELATED 25TH BIRTHDAY to my dearest ADELYNN!! her bdae was on 2nd August too!! =)

we had a really mini and simple celebration for him..

met up with krissy's and joanna's family wanted to go Singapore Flyer.. tix had been bought alr but krissy couldnt make it on time.. cos on the same day, she's moving into her new home! CONGRATS! so we ended up @ Marina Barrage.. but all the kids had alr fall asleep except jabez..=( so we let him play with the water for awhile before changing venue to C.Nai at siglap.. cut cake and blow out e candles.. so heng darren woke up.. they were busy playing with each other la.. we reach home near 2.. both meimei and jabez KO on the way home.. haha! thanks joanna and krissy for bringing their kids out to celebrate jabez's bdae.. appreciate it lotsa!!

@ Marina Barrage

@ C.Nai

on a sad note.. eugenia had left our co. alr!! im so gonna missed her.. we had a farewell celebration for her on 31st july @ one of the pub near neil road..

following are lots and lots of 自恋 pics.. so u make click on the [x] at the top right hand corner of e webpage if u do not want to waste ur time viewing.. LOL!

帅 bohs? too bad these 2 帅哥 are married and not available! haha!

well, this lady here is LOK!!! WAHAHAHAHA!!! just kidding!!! we had a story behind... LOL!! but definitely, she's a nice and decent girl la..=)

candid pics!

my lunching kakis!

those who attend..

dearest eugenia, wish u all the best in ur studies!

lastly, love the effects taken from eugenia's polaroid camera! make me heart itchy itchy wanna get one too! but im a pauper! =(

so many ppl's leaving.. when would it ever be my turn? why do i always procrastinate??

sch started! but today's only for orientation.. my 1st lesson will start on 18th august.. my grp members seems friendly.. out of 5 pax, dear is the only guy in the grp! *alamak!

- 最近比较烦 -

2009-07-12T10:23:00.002+08:00
10:23am

i definitely hate this weekend.. thank god there's chalet with the ladies to keep my mind occupied.. i no longer like weekends.. i rather work.. *sighs*

anyway, ytd brought the 2 kiddos out to downtown east for e chalet.. but i didnt stayed long.. jabez is so timid la.. there's those trains for kids, he doesnt dare to sit alone!! he wanted me to go onboard with him.. end up, refund the tix.. while we while walking, trying to find a place to sit, he suddenly tagged me and said,

he: mummy! mummy!
me: hmm.. ya?
he: i love you!

i totally snook! im used to him saying "i love you".. we said that to each other kinda often la.. but not so sudden.. suddenly walk halfway he tell me is just so snook lor!! i am seriously touched.. he dont stick to mi like superglue.. he prefers the company of my mil, mil's maid and dear more.. even ytd have dinner with dear's colleague, he rather hold his colleague's hand den mine!! but that 3 words really touch my heart.. at nite, he wanted his daddy to bath for him.. he dun wan mi to.. but that's a good thing la.. cos i no need to bath for him mahs!! hahahahaha.. as usual, he kissed me and said "good night".. his daddy ask him, "how abt daddy?".. he said, "i dun want u.. i angry with u.." haha!! my cheeky prince lar!!

anw, a colleague of mine enlightened alot alot of my thoughts.. i shall strive hard towards the future! =)

i do not like weekends.. but i extremely love fridays! looking forward to coming friday and hopefully my voice recovers.. sounds really like man now.. at certain tone, the voice wouldnt even come out!! ma de!! i wanna sing with judy!!!!! hehe..

- i shall look at life at a simpler way -

2009-07-04T15:44:00.001+08:00
3:44pm

HAPPY 1ST BIRTHDAY TO MY PRINCESS, SHYANNE!!!!

2009-06-30T00:00:00.008+08:00
12:05am

it's been quite some time since i blogged! i have tonnes of pics.. have alr uploaded to my facebook.. super lazy to upload here again.. so i shall leave as it is..=x

jabez's starting his new school on the 1st of july.. but he had alr keep pestering us to bring him to his new sch instead of his current one! anw, teacher Jally went to visit him 2 weeks ago? but he was sick.. so they didnt met each other.. she left a gift for jabez at the CC.. so nice of her!!

last sat went MONO @ St James to celebrate dear's fren - jun xiong's bdae.. they sang a few thai songs.. i fall in love with this particular one..

Da Endorphine - Dai Yin Mai

ฉันรู้เธอรอฉัน รอฟังคำนั้นซักวัน
chan roo ter ror chan ror fang kam nan sak wan
I know you've been waiting for me, waiting to hear those words one day.

ฉันรู้ฉันมันรั้ง ดึงดันไม่ยอมพูดมา
chan roo chan man rang deung dan mai yom poot maa
I know I've been holding back, not willing to say them out loud.

ฉันแค่คิด ยังไม่ถึงเวลา
chan kae kit yang mai teung way-laa
I just thought it wasn't yet the right time.

ฉันรู้ว่าวันนี้ มันก็อาจจะสายเกินไป
chan kae kit yang mai teung way-laa
I know that today it's nearly too late.

แม้พูดดังแค่ไหน กลายเป็นไม่มีผู้ฟัง
mae poot dang kae nai glaai bpen mai mee poo fang
And that however loud I say them, maybe there's no one to listen to them.

ฉันไม่รู้ เธออยู่ในที่แสนไกล
chan mai roo ter yoo nai tee saen glai
I don't know which faraway place you're in now.

ได้ยินไหม ได้ยินไหม โปรดฟังว่าฉันรักเธอ
dai-yin mai dai-yin mai bproht fang waa chan rak ter
Can you hear, can you hear, please hear me saying that I love you.

เธอจะอยู่ไหน อยู่สุดฟ้าไกล เพียงให้เธอรับรู้
ter ja yoo nai yoo soot faa glai piang hai ter rap roo
Wherever you are, beyond the horizon, I just want you to know.

ได้ยินฉัน บอกเธอไหม ว่าคนคนนี้รักเธอ
dai-yin chan bok ter mai waa kon kon nee rak ter
Can you hear me telling you that I love you.

นี่ไงคำว่ารัก ที่เธอรอฟัง ได้ยินไหม
nee ngai kam waa rak tee ter ror fang dai-yin mai
This is it, the words you've been waiting to hear, can you hear them?

เพิ่งรู้ในตอนนี้ เวลาทุกวินาที
perng roo nai dton nee way-laa took wi-naa-tee
I've just realised now, and know every minute.

รู้ซึ้งในตอนนี้ บางคำที่แสนสำคัญ
roo seung nai dton nee baang kam tee saen sam-kan
I realise now how important these words are.

พูดวันนี้ เหมือนเธอนั้น อยู่แสนไกล
poot wan nee meuan ter nan yoo saen glai
Saying it today, when you're so far away.

ได้ยินไหม ได้ยินไหม โปรดฟังว่าฉันรักเธอ
dai-yin mai dai-yin mai bproht fang waa chan rak ter
Can you hear, can you hear, please hear me saying that I love you.

เธอจะอยู่ไหน อยู่สุดฟ้าไกล เพียงให้เธอรับรู้
ter ja yoo nai yoo soot faa glai piang hai ter rap roo
Wherever you are, beyond the horizon, I just want you to know.

ได้ยินฉัน บอกเธอไหม ว่าคนคนนี้รักเธอ
dai-yin chan bok ter mai waa kon kon nee rak ter
Can you hear me telling you that I love you.

นี่ไงคำว่ารัก ที่เธอรอฟัง ได้ยินไหม
nee ngai kam waa rak tee ter ror fang dai-yin mai
This is it, the words you've been waiting to hear, can you hear them?

(Interlude)

พูดวันนี้ เหมือนเธอนั้น อยู่แสนไกล
poot wan nee meuan ter nan yoo saen glai
Saying it today, when you're so far away.

ได้ยินไหม ได้ยินไหม โปรดฟังว่าฉันรักเธอ
dai-yin mai dai-yin mai bproht fang waa chan rak ter
Can you hear, can you hear, please hear me saying that I love you.

เธอจะอยู่ไหน อยู่สุดฟ้าไกล เพียงให้เธอรับรู้
ter ja yoo nai yoo soot faa glai piang hai ter rap roo
Wherever you are, beyond the horizon, I just want you to know.

ได้ยินฉัน บอกเธอไหม ว่าคนคนนี้รักเธอ
dai-yin chan bok ter mai waa kon kon nee rak ter
Can you hear me telling you that I love you.

นี่ไงคำว่ารัก ที่เธอรอฟัง
nee ngai kam waa rak tee ter ror fang
This is it, the words you've been waiting to hear.

ได้ยินไหม ได้ยินไหม โปรดฟังคนนี้รักเธอ
dai-yin mai dai-yin mai bproht fang kon nee rak ter
Can you hear, can you hear, please hear me saying that I love you.

นี่ไงคำว่ารัก ที่เธอรอฟัง ได้ยินไหม
nee ngai kam waa rak tee ter ror fang dai-yin mai
This is it, the words you've been waiting to hear.

source from http://www.ethaimusic.com/endorphine/dai-yin-mai.html

im so gonna learn this song!

- dai-yin mai dai-yin mai -

2009-06-19T01:43:00.005+08:00
2:09am

i cant wait for tomorrow.. or issit later?? steph and lenie gonna come up and whip up dinner for us cos jabez's sick and i couldnt met them for dinner.. so steph suggest this idea!! haha.. and it will be rebellious nite! (quoted frm steph) lols..

16.06.09

met up with joanna&hubby and krissy&family @ 老香港 after work.. teacher jally called mi and ask me abt jabez.. she told mi lotsa stories abt the old CC.. so they have changed the programmes.. there's some internal conflicts which somehow caused her to left.. it's a sad thing.. cos she's really a good teacher!! another mummy also told me she's withdrawing her kid out.. but couldnt find one with vacancy.. 2006 is sure a baby boom year!!

after dinner, krissy&hubby fetch the kids back home first.. while we follow joanna home to get jackets..

pics taken while waiting for joanna and hubby..

den to AMKhub to watch "DRAG ME TO HELL"..

luckily we did.. AMKhub theatre is damn freaking cold la.. plus this movie is damn freaking mental torture.. super scary!! my hands were super sour at the end of the show cos i was covering my ears throughout the movie.. *pengs* i think it's good.. a MUST WATCH for ppl who loves horror!! rate is 4.5/5!!

17.06.09

POWERHOUSE with my 2 mummies.. joanna and krissy!! they're more high den mi.. dance all the way!! o.O me was totally wasted.. i know what happens.. like 2 stupid guys dat acted like an idiot.. how i went home etc.. i know.. but i just couldnt walk straight.. walking is alr a torture.. both of them has to bring me up to my house.. krissy has to help me open the door.. i reach hm at like 4 plus? im really really surprise that i could wake up for work.. lols.. thank god that benjamin (krissy's hubby) went too so able to fetch me back also.. if not, i dunno how im gonna go home.. thanks lotsa to joanan and krissy!! this is my 2nd time in my whole life drink until lidat!! i totally overestimate myself this time round.. lols..

2009-06-16T00:34:00.009+08:00
12:36am

i have so much that i wanna update.. but i don't have the mood to do so..=( upset with lotsa things.. i just wanna drink, drank but not becoming drunk every nite.. but i cant afford to.. *sucks*

i shall just blog the happy memories ya..

12.06.09

HAPPY 10TH YEAR ANNIVERSARY to my dearest friends - yvette & zach!!

on this memorable day, thru zach's recommendation.. we went fine dining @ Garibaldi located at Purvis St.. the food's great.. ambience is great.. service is great.. company is great.. everything is PERFECT!! im so gonna bring dear and visit this restaurant again!! i totally indulge the food there!! *yummilicious* i like the waiter who served our table!! it's the nitty gritty things that he attend to our needs that make me feel that he's really observant!!

on our way to next destination..

aftermath, we wanted to drink @ Raffles Bar & Billard Room.. but it's gonna closed.. decided on Cityspace.. den i change my mind suddenly to go home.. cos my heels are hurting me..=x SO SORRY!! anyway, we took lotsa crazy pics @ one of the staircase of Raffles Hotel.. LOL!!

really sorry to both for spoiling the mood by suddenly hailing the cab and go home.. ive been doing weird things SUDDENLY lately.. the sudden urge just come and i will do it immediately..o.O

just had steamboat with krissy (with hubby, kyrene and bravier) and joanna (with hubby and darren).. for the first time, dear had dinner with us together and jabez!! Rajah Inn @ Tiong Bahru Plaza.. i had lotsa food!! tomorrow then diet lar!! i just go and see Dr John in the evening.. LOL!! im so fat now!! i nid to lose somemore weight!! *CRIES*!!!

- i cant sleep.. -

2009-06-10T00:51:00.002+08:00
12:51am

PATTERN MORE THAN BADMINTON SIA!! buey tahan!! u make my toes luffing.. HAHA!! i am happy bcos this is the reaction i want from you!! *weeuwee!!

2009-06-08T02:15:00.013+08:00
2:17am

07.06.09
it was a last min decision.. believe me, it really was!! i just had the urge to cut my hair!! i was preparing to meet krissy and joanna @ orchard.. den i changed my mind and decided to meet them at a later time while i go cut hair first!! so i MRT-ed to BISHAN #1 to find jason.. one of his assistant asked if i wanna do new color also.. i ask if everything can be finished by 4pm.. he said YES!! so i did.. hehe.. i let jason choose e color since it was so last min.. im soooooooooo satisfied with my hair!! i didnt cut till real short.. he just trim my hair, cut my fringe.. but still, i like it!! =x the hair color was great!! it looks like BLACK.. but under warm lightings, it's actually purple.. or issit red?? cant rem.. LOL!! anw, i love myself in black hair suddenly!! since im losing lotsa hair nowadays, i think black looks more healthy.. LOL!!

MRT-ed to sengkang den cabbed home to fetch shyanne and jabez den off to TAKA!! meet up with joanna and krissy and their kiddos.. dinner @ CENTRAL.. shop at the atrium for toys.. din buy any in e end.. only got both of them water bottles.. den i head to PARAGON for threading.. slack at the playground.. den fetch krissy home.. we went over to DEFU to meet up with dear's friends.. supper @ PUNGGOL nasi lemak.. still love the ba chou mee!! and now, here i am!! =)

05.06.09
meetup with zach & yvette to discuss about our BIG DAY!! our 10th year friendship anniversary!! LOL!! it will be held on 12.06.09!! haha.. it's a lame idea by them la.. haha!! anw, we ended up @ FORBIDDEN CITY.. den sua to ARENA.. saw ralia @ the flea market.. yvette bought a pretty corset there!! i wanted to get it too.. but dropped the idea.. too revealing la.. LOL!! plus when i took off, i was panting heavily.. LOL!! zach totally enjoy himself @ ARENA i believe!! HAHA!!

supper bak kut teh around mohd sultan.. not nice lehs.. i prefer jurong east st 30+ ones.. all i taste is pepper..-,-;;

03.06.09

it was a last min meetup with yvette.. after wrk, was feeling kinda down.. called her and she said she too was not feeling good.. so we met up!! =) dinner @ THAI EXPRESS.. i love my phad thai!!

den we walked over to BOAT QUAY.. had a longlong time deciding which pub.. ended up @ 红楼.. i like the ambience, the decor of the pub.. but sadly, system was not fantastic.. singer was a filippino with good vocal though.. only 2 tables including ours was occupied..-,- yvette's drink was terrible.. she had SEX ON THE BEACH.. while i had BAILEY.. *yummy!

02.06.09

after wrk, KUISHINBO @ SUNTEC with dear and jabez, alvin and gf and joanna, hubby and darren!! a filling dinner!! *SHIOK* this is my 3rd time at kuishinbo.. but my FIRST eating the alaskan crabs and the cold cold prawns!! the first time, somehow dunno y, i didnt appreciate the taste and find it weird y ppl love it.. so the 2nd time, i didnt touch AT ALL!! but this time round, i gave it a chance again to try it.. cos joanna was saying it's damn nice.. it really is!! the prawns are VERY JUICY and SWEET!! the crabs and prawns are the MUST TRY items!! *yummilicious* but no more KUISHINBO!! i wanna try HANABI!!

2009-06-06T15:44:00.001+08:00
TOPSHOP-inspired Laced Dress

pic from dressabelle.livejournal.com

BN selling @ $20 mailed. definitely a loss.

email me @ vodkager@gmail.com

2009-06-01T23:12:00.012+08:00
12:02am

been really busy FB-ing lately.. reach hm, i start to FB.. reach wrkplace, i start to FB.. siao FB-ing alr.. LOL!!

27.05.09
sorry dear.. for not being able to give u what u really really wanted.. im totally broke.. so everything had to keep to the minimum.. i tried my best alr la.. i had a hard time thinking wad to get for him.. so i ended up treating him to SPA!! was sourcing around for good spas for couples.. came across SPA SAUVIGNON!!

promos for credit card users.. but actually the lady boss there quite flexible la.. although it was stated for OCBC promos, but you use UOB or DBS or wadeva also can use OCBC promo.. i took up the $188 promo that includes, full body massage, foot therapy, complimentary red wine free flow!, body polish/scrub etcetc.. cant rem.. a good 2hr.. including soaking inside the "jacuzzi" or rather, bathtub.. haha!!

me and dear nv regret la.. cos the atmosphere is damn romantic.. it's the only wine-themed spa in singapore.. everything they use consists of wine.. even the bath we soak in has wine.. super worth for those who loves red wine since free flow.. lols!! i had soft massage while dear had the hard one.. it was a shiok session for me but at some part, where i got more fats.. it's damn pain.. my whole spinal and the waist there ache for a few days.. lols.. for dear, he kenna jialat jialat by the massage lady.. lols.. the more he kpkb pain, the more the lady wanna massage that area even harder.. to "loosen" up the muscles she said.. haha!! if got the spa money, really wanna sign up the package la.. damn shuang!!

totally recommend couples ONLY! cos i read from other ppl's blog.. those who went ALONE commented very boring.. cos it's too dark.. cannot do anything.. but me and dear find it rather relaxing.. i seriously dun mind going alone to relax my mind.. but the thing is, the place is kinda inaccessible.. it's around haji lane..

taken in the room.. too dark to take the room though..

aftermath, fetch jabez bring him back to sengkang.. and we head for LAKSA STEAMBOAT!! dear was pleased with the food as well!!

head to AMKhub for, "Night at the Museum 2"!! pass by Scarlet City.. dear say it's a NTUC club.. lols.. they was playing old school technos sia!! haha.. i think we shld visit there one day.. LMAO!!

i think part 1 nicer.. dun really like the part 2.. it bores me~ before we enter the cinema, got dear a slice of cake from the counter.. LOL!! pathetic i know!! but bettery den nothing hor!! =x

though it's a super simple celebration, i hope he enjoy himself.. cos to me, we did spend quality time for the day..=)

- i wish to love you for all my life -

2009-05-26T00:59:00.003+08:00
1:03am

some random photos..

brother and sister looks soooo alike!!

the sunflower "meimei"

taken yesterday, 24/05 @ Roland Seafood Restaurant.. celebrate dear's grandma birthday.. his mama bought the cake frm EMICAKES.. damn nice!!

2009-05-23T08:49:00.006+08:00
9:06am

my little princess! all pics taken by MIL..

pics taken @ Arena on 20th May..

AVM VS ABTUS!

my ladies!

left to right: steph, yiingyng, shir, eileen
top: sharon, me, lenie

i love this lady..

following, will be "zi lian" pics of me and steph.. click the "X" at top right corner of this page if u dun wan to continue.. LOL!!

steph looks sexy in this pic!

so i tried to COPY her.. but buey SAI jiu shi buey SAI!! LOL!!

and i totally dig these 2 pics of us!! <3 <3

taken in office.. TERESA's birthday!!

2009-05-21T10:04:00.004+08:00
10:05am

ARENA with shirley, yiingyng, steph&gf and lenie ytd nite.. F-U-N!! ok, i was the joker of the day.. cos was kinda tipsy..=x i have clubbing mood lately!! and that idiot.. ask me die die must go home.. so i went home.. and missed call him like a million times.. but he nv pick up!! kuku!! make mi have to trouble MIL to open e door for mi.. *irritating!!!

not in very good mood lately.. things hasnt been going well.. ive been eating non-stop too.. think gotta start visit dr john again.. lols..

anw, i had a very weird friend.. she is nice when she doesnt do funny funny things.. instead, she's super nice.. she's really a friend in need.. but sometimes, i find it really ridiculous for her to do certain things.. she thought i wouldn't know.. she thought she is very good in playing mind games.. but she is very wrong.. bcos i know her for so long.. i know her too well.. she got her guy fren to come and know me.. den slowly get close to me.. certain things happened.. the guy nv call.. till recently, my facebook was all with the emo stuffs, this guy came back again.. trying to "打听" what happened to me.. i know it was SHE who is interested.. of cos, i just simply ignore that idiot la.. if u really wanna know what happened to me, just ask me directly.. why treat me like an idiot.. asking ur another fren come n know me den act as if u 2 dunno each other.. super WTF.. it's super childish!! i dunno why she have all these funny ideas.. krissy say mayb she really treats me as a good friend just that her character is lidat lor.. but, really mehs?! or she's just interested to see me fall..?? some ppl just wanna see "show".. see how badly i fall den luff behind my back.. lols..

on a happier note, dear sponsored these 2.. i super love them!! got it from http://bonitochico.livejournal.com i <3 their clothes!! but this is my first time getting from them.. the navy dress didnt had the intention to get it de.. until i went Tampines One, a shop named "VOGUE" carries alot of LJ clothes!! and saw this piece but only grey and black.. went to try and i love it.. so got it frm bonitochico.. hehe.. kinda worried for the laced spag though..

met up krissy with shyanne on Sunday @ Tampines One.. and i heart that shopping mall TOTALLY!! i love most of the shops there.. i havent shop finish!! so many nicenice shoes.. so many nicenice clothes.. but im BROKE!! *arghs* so pissed off with myself!!

MIL took some super cute pics of shyanne!! i really LOL when i see those pics!! i shall upload them when im free.. haha..

btw, ive moved back to Sengkang.. any mummies can recommend any good CC around anchorvale area?? friends, ask me out ok!!

- it's just my lowest point of life -

2009-05-19T11:49:00.002+08:00
11:49am

got this from yufen.. just to share with everyone..

Boulder and Bus:

A couple went to the hillside in a bus. Half way through only the 2 of them got down. After the bus went on without them, a boulder dropped on the bus from nowhere, crashing it into mouldering. There were no survivor.. The couple regretfully said: If only we hadn't got down. Well most people would say, Luckily we got off. Why do you think they would say the opposite?

Answer: If they hadn't got off, the bus would've passed the accident scene before it happened! In life, we should try to evaluate situations from a different point, think positively and help each other, not mingle with only your own business.

2009-05-17T23:42:00.004+08:00
11:43pm

- edited 8:09am -

i decided to ignore or turn a deaf ear to whatever they say

- lalalala lalalala elmo song! -

2009-05-14T08:55:00.009+08:00
8:56am

Spoiled Child Slap & Chokes Mother in Public for Toys

source from http://www.chinasmack.com/pictures/spoiled-child-slaps-chokes-mother-in-public-for-toy/

Incident: Mother and son, after visiting the Buddhist Temple, are on their way home. Darling son is crying and making a fuss demanding to buy a toy from a roadside toy stall. The mother scolds the son for wanting everything he sees and since there is no reason to buy an unnecessary toy, she refuses to buy.

1. In the midst of the crowd, suddenly see a child pulling his mother’s hand crying and making a fuss…

2. Mother: “You buy so many useless things to do what? At home there is a large pile I never see you play…”

Son: “I just want it, buy it for me!”

3. Mother: “Only liking these meaningless things, I will not buy it!”

Son: “Wu…even if refuse to buy, you must buy…wu…”

4. The son slapped the mother and then asked again: “Are you going to buy it or not?”

The mother was speechless…

5. Angry, the mother wanted to leave, but the son quickly pulled her. His voice softened but he continued to harass her.

The people around could only smile nervously.

6. The son suddenly used all his strength to pull at his mother’s hair to force his mother to give in.

The mother was speechless, the crowd was speechless, I was speechless.

(”Darling son, hurry and let go! So many people, give me some face okay?”)

7. Son: “Wu…I want, you will not buy it for me, I like it this much yet you will not buy it for me…wu…”

Mother: “Hurry and let go, it hurts…”

(Just what kind of toy is so fun? Incomprehensible.)

8. Son: “Such a cheap thing yet you will not buy for me, my schoolmates all have it, I want it…”

Mother: “I already bought a small chicken [toy] for you, you simply…” (did not hear clearly)

(”I will also pull your hair, ai ya! Had I known earlier, I would not have brought you to get such a short haircut yesterday…”)

9. Some company’s promotional girl came to break up the fight saying: “Little friend, what do you want? I will go buy it for you, okay?”

Son: “I only want my mother to buy! You get lost!!!”

Her face full of embarrassment, the pretty girl walked away.

(”You get lost” was something everyone heard very clearly.)

10. The son went crazy, reached out and grabbed his mother’s throat.

In the middle of the tussle…

11. Ai you! My god…

The mother’s face is bright red from being suffocated…
…

12. The mother being strangled.

13. [The son] let go and continued pushing [the mother] toward buying the toy…

14. In the middle of the struggle…

16. Again he grabbed the hair.

The son went mad: “Will you buy or not??”

Mother: “Again, it hurts so much, hurry and let go, I will buy it! I will buy it, okay…”

After giving in to her son, the mother and son walked to the toy stall.

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i believe totally in spare the rod and spoil the child..

慈母多败儿.. if is my son, i would have slapped him right on the spot.. told my colleague abt it, she said, "how would others look at u!" but to me, as long as i get the right message across, as long as i discipline my child, i wouldnt care how ppl wanna look at me.. mouth is others.. i cant stop anyone from saying anything.. i will not tolerate anything lidat..

nowadays, jabez will raise his voice at us.. i will look at him and demand an apology.. ask him to repeat what he said again in a nicer way.. if i allow him to raise his voice at me.. he will test my limit and become even more disrespectful towards me.. im lucky.. cos jabez don't pester me for toys.. when i say put back.. he will put back.. if he dun, i will walk away.. den he will cry and put back den come running after me.. i really am lucky to have a son like him.. bcos just by walking away can cause him crying like mad..-,-;; but for shyanne, i dunno.. cos i feel shyanne really have very similar character and temper as me.. i hope she will be 乖乖 like 哥哥!!

anw, i TEXAS till 2 plus ytd nite.. starting won 60k.. end up lose 40k.. im super pissed off with myself for not leaving!! LOL!! my luck was so good at first.. den after tat jitao shitty!! im kinda addicted with texas also liao.. lols.. dear started playing cos i was angry with him for losing my 20k.. den he played and return me back.. WAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!! sounds so childish!! =x

- i can never be a good mother -

2009-05-12T22:49:00.008+08:00
10:17am

i MIGHT be moving back to sengkang.. so now searching for childcare centres to see if there's any reliable ones.. was considering joanna's son CC.. cos at least he got someone he know there.. i hope jabez can cope with new environment.. the least thing i want to do is change his CC.. he love that CC.. his friends and teachers love him too.. the feeling sucks to leave a place that you love..

08.05.09
i went ZOUK like finally! haha.. im so mountain tortoise!! =x but it sucks.. the song sucks.. i dun like the songs!! but the company is GREAT!! i had lotsa fun that nite.. mayb cos all of us was alittle tipsy.. everything became funny.. it becomes FUN!! lols.. super hilarious!! joker of the day DEFINITELY goes to shaowei!! LOL!! and we also found out a dark secret of him.. hiakhiakhiak!!
joker and me!

my nice ex-colleague chun sing from accts..

belle of the company, yiingyng..

the 3 musketeers!!

shaowei, me, chun sing, desmond (behind)

aftermath, head to HAKUBA.. bcos special guest, nadia is joining us!! but i only see her for awhile..=( meet up soon k, babe! we still had alot of catching up to do!!
i miss this lady!! nadia and me~

hakuba lady, AJ! she machiam hugging a polar bear.. i am uber FAT!!

me and steph..

we love each other.. im learning kayden's signature 猪嘴!! i shall try harder..

mediacorp got 七公主.. we also!! LOL!!

went back hm around 5-6am.. dear woke up suddenly and saw that it's raining heavily.. he VOLUNTEERED to come down and fetch me!! went to buy mcdonald breakfast and home sweet home!!

09.05.09 & 10.05.09
took care of the 2 kiddos by myself~ i enjoy taking care of them!! except jabez keep bullying meimei.. meimei see him she run!! LOL!! saturday nite went Whitesands hk cafe meetup with joanna and krissy.. thanks krissy for the thomas train sticker book!! it was a short meetup.. den went over 永和油条大王 to meet dear's frens.. jabez slp in the car.. while we monitor him from outside.. he woke up halfway.. so we went back first.. sunday went over 婆婆's place.. just nice "koh kun".. den they all tease me lar.. say, "got food den come la.. no food wun see u in 1!!" wah lau..

11.05.09
im on leave due to Vesak Day.. co. shutdown for a day.. dear off day too.. it's been super duper long since we off together!! jabez went to sch as usual.. while meimei's with us for the whole afternoon travelling to and there.. love her so much! she's really a sweetie pie of mine!! she really very 讨人喜爱..

we went kaplan to enquire the course.. den MOE to get my cert.. wanted to go Maybank to enquire the study loan too.. but end up closed!! nite time, went BPP to repair my heels.. cos the chor lor me walk until the rubber of the heels wear off.. lols.. and i love these 2 pairs so much.. so i rather go repair it.. not all heels wear alr comfortable mahs.. while dear cut hair.. took some pics for my prince and princess~!! hehe..

btw, this little princess of mine is so funny! we were on the car.. she dig a nose den directly put it in her mouth and suck her little fingers.. LOL!! i like to see babies "orh pi sai"!! very cute!! wahahahaha..

e clothes that jabez wore that day match the car color totally! LOL!!

dear's birthday coming this month.. i promise him a pair of angel eyes.. now he can only have my pair of eyes.. holy shit!! =(

- happy little family! -

2009-05-12T00:35:00.004+08:00
12:35am

HOW GREAT could that be? my specs alignment went totally out.. can no longer be worn.. i gotta bring it back to the optical shop.. and what's the most infuriating part? both my sis at home only.. both say NOT THEY DO ONE! GREAT! lidat ghost do one lor.. KNN! now, gotta burden me and make a trip to make my specs.. and if it canot be repair, i gotta spend money and buy a freaking new one.. CCB!! i am super pissed off.. bcos no one admits it!! it's fucking ccb knn irritating!!!!!!!!

i swear im gonna make sure they pay for it..

2009-05-08T02:30:00.005+08:00
12:45pm

i sleep less than 3hrs EVERYDAY for this whole week.. and i also late by 30min for work EVERYDAY.. i did hear the alarm ringing.. but i always 赖床 end up overslept.. *alamak*

say "byebye" to hello kitty mouse..

say "hello" to pinky mouse..

not good to use one.. abit hard.. not smooth.. i still love my hello kitty~~

finally went Wan Dou Sek 2nd time.. after trying most of the items.. i would prefer Mongkok..=x but still, porridge DO NOT go to Mongkok.. and i dun like the chili of Wan Dou Sek.. it's those type like nasi lemak chili.. dun suits at all.. no more Wan Dou Sek.. unless i want their 荷叶饭, 芋角 or "fan choy"! i still havent try the "fan choy"!

dear took the pictures~ i think jabez looks so cute in these pics!! but...... looks like girl leh!! >.<

HAKUBA tonite!! i simply can't wait!! bcos nadia's going~ im sure we're gonna have lotsa F-U-N!!

- i miss the good ole days -

2009-05-02T05:14:00.005+08:00
11:02am

had a long weekend.. this coming week also long weekend.. bcos instead of compensating us 1 day annual leave for sat's vesak day, the company decided to close down on monday.. *pengs* whichever the case is.. glad that it's another week of long weekend..

29.04.09 (wed)

dear came over to fetch me after work.. we were on our way to Yew Tee mrt to collect the clothes which i bought on LJ when we met with an accident.. a minor one.. we're unhurt.. except some scratches and dent on the bumper.. it's an indian who knocked into us using company pickup.. he like so ke lian.. keep ask us dun claim from insurance.. but den like dear say.. if it's the other way round.. we also will be treated the same way.. we ke lian him den who ke lian us?? true la.. anyway, we end up @ leonard's recommendation garage.. no nid pay a single cent upfront.. *phew..

caught X-Men Origins - Wolverine @ Bishan Junction 8 with dear & friends.. it's a super duper LAME movie which i think really waste of $$.. dear say mayb cos i nv watch part 1.. so i dun understand.. but he also rate it as 4.5/10 la.. i feel that if a movie needs me to watch part 1 so as to understand part 2, i think it failed terribly.. it's supposed to be an action packed movie.. but i dun feel any hooha abt the actions.. i don't find it gruesome.. i don't find any exciting part with this movie.. it's just so mono.. bad! bad!

rate: 0/5
conclusion: don't waste the money!

aftermath, Arena @ Clarke Quay!! with shir, lenie, yiingyng, adam, lewis&camp mates.. went for like 1-2hrs only.. been so long since i saw lenie!! miss her!! haha.. but on a very disappointing note, there are sooooo many M.I.Cs around.. *sighs* totally degrade the place.. *yucks!! and they are LOKS!! LOL!! more of such nites puh lease~~

30.04.09 (thurs)

me&dear, alvin&gf went HAKUBA.. it's been freaking long since i stepped there!! i waited for AJ & lenie to come until neck long long.. decided to leave the place.. den saw AJ & lenie @ the carpark!! *arghs* anw, alvin&gf was busy TEXAS POKER-ing~ me&dear was so bored.. i started snapping pics.. LOL!! therefore, please click the X on the top right corner of this page.. cos it's all pics of me and dear.. haha!

dim sum supper @ 揾到食 (Wan Dou Sek) Geylang.. i want to go there again.. although i only had their 荷叶饭 and 薏米水.. but i see david's 皮蛋瘦肉粥, alvin's 虾饺 and his gf's FAN CHOY makes me drools!! ALL of it seems so yummilicious!! their 荷叶饭 is the best i had ever eaten.. 薏米水 was thick!! it's served in a BOWL instead of normal glasses.. i believe their dim sum standard is better den Mongkok @ Geylang..!! but dun understand y Mongkok more popular whenever ppl talk abt Geylang dim sum.. 1 thing for sure.. Mongkok porridge alr lose 揾到食 until very jialat.. the look of it makes mi lose appetite liaos.. cos it's watery ones.. i hate watery porridge!! i like those gluey gluey ones.. lols..

01.05.09 (fri)

teacher Jally called and talked to jabez for 5-10mins!! haha.. she invite him over to her place.. lols.. ask me how's jabez coping w/o her..=)

met up with nana, jessie & guanlun for k-session @ taman jurong Partyworld.. from 5pm-9pm!! i agreed immediately cos i was CRAVING to SING!! but i wasnt in the best mood to sing tat day.. halfway thru, we went to NTUC and smuggle tidbits in.. LOL!! jabez was super sticky to guanlun as usual.. he call guanlun korkor only.. the rest he bo hiew..-,-;; MRT-ed to Whitesands then.. by then he's super duper sleepy.. cos ard 12 liao.. so i walk ard the area trying to make him sleep.. went back to HK Cafe.. met up with krissy&hubby and joanna&hubby.. we chit-chatted till 3?? until they have to inform us that they're knocking off.. haha.. we keep saying go alr go alr.. but we always end up chit-chatting again.. dear say, "你们的等一下很久!!" LOL!! jabez sleep all the way till nxt morning.. hehe..

02.05.09 (saturday)

steamboat @ my place with joanna and krissy&kids.. this time round no BBQ.. no maid liao.. my mum's gonna kill mi if i arrange BBQ steamboat.. they went back around 8 plus.. den i tried to make jabez slp till i fall aslp.. he couldnt slp.. he just twist and turn trying to slp until 10 plus joanna sms me ask if im going out.. den i change my mind and started preparing him.. den receive a sms from joanna say she not going.. i sian half!! cos alr tell jabez we're going out.. he will definitely feel disappointed if not going alr.. so decided to go ourselves lor.. called krissy and ask if she wanna join us.. she's going 师奶 instead.. so met up with her @ 师奶 (hkcafe).. i love their eefu noodles.. *thumbsup!! noodles very QQ.. haha!!

jabez K.O while on the way home.. but eyes open bigbig once reach hm..-,- he din fall aslp till 4 plus when both of us join him for slping.. *diaos* he's getting more n more "eh dong"!!

03.05.09 (sunday)

he woke up @ 8-9plus in the morning!! i faster make milk and yao him to slp.. arranged to go Expo eventually.. yes, with joanna and krissy again!! hehe.. alr started preparing jabez and shyanne's stuffs wanna bring both of them out.. den jabez start his crankiness.. it's alr 6plus and he had not take his nap since 12 in the noon.. so i decided to make him slp first den bring shyanne out with me.. i changed so many sets of clothes for shyanne.. tell shyanne to say "byebye" to my mum alr.. i was thinking whr is the stroller.. only to realise it's at dear's car!!!!!!! me and mum was luffing soooooo hard!! cos happily happily want go out liao.. shyanne also very excited.. cos whenever we change her clothes she will make noise.. den when i put her down to my mum.. she also make noise wan mi carry lidat.. so funny lar!! so eventually, i went out alone..=x nothing to buy @ New Mom exhibition.. only bought a DVD karaoke songs for jabez.. dinner @ T3 Popeyes.. from 9pm talk till going to 2am.. power lor.. we really can chat ALOT!! haha..

meet up wit yf and zach later to gym!! i feel ive put up alot of weight.. and im having SERIOUS constipation!!!!!! wadeva goes in doesnt comes out!!! it's irritating!!!

- loves all! -